My brother reduced his tenant's rent and made her sleep with him as compensation.

[Seegtease]

So, can anybody tell me if the OP reacted in the thread again?

A quick search tells me only once way back on page 4, and not much useful information.

To answer some of the questions here:

She isn't making alot of money. She works as a Food Service Aid at a retirement home and makes $11 an hour. Her original rent was $750 a month, which actually was a bit of a struggle for her. My brother and I aren't exactly that close. He was always busy with school and work when we were growing up and so we didn't spend too much time together. I was planning on talking to him about this and seeing if he can stop this whole ordeal and maybe reduce her rent a little bit. I haven't talked to the tenant herself about this yet. I do want to solve this problem in a way that doesn't hurt both sides too much. My brother always was a bit of a jerk but I never expected anything like this from him...

[Luftmangle]

Wouldn't give a F* if it was my sibling or not; I'd go straight to the cops with this nonsense. This is abuse, and that woman is going to have to deal with this the rest of her life.

How exactly is it abuse?

She moved into the home on an already agreed upon amount. She obviously could afford the rent as she wouldn't have moved in otherwise.

He then suggested to her that she could earn some extra money by sleeping with him. It doesn't matter if it was for rent or whatever she wanted.

She, as an adult accepted the solicitation for sex from another adult.

There is no victim, there is no abuse.

[Grimbold21]

So, can anybody tell me if the OP reacted in the thread again?

More importantly, how did this thread reach 105 pages and counting?

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More importantly, how did this thread reach 105 pages and counting?

It was mostly a select few people over the course of a couple days having posting back and forth wars.

I don't think I've ever seen a thread grow to 100 as fast as this thread.

[Wælcyrie]

I say your brother is winning, she wasn't forced to live there.

[Chirajaeden]

How exactly is it abuse?

She moved into the home on an already agreed upon amount. She obviously could afford the rent as she wouldn't have moved in otherwise.

He then suggested to her that she could earn some extra money by sleeping with him. It doesn't matter if it was for rent or whatever she wanted.

She, as an adult accepted the solicitation for sex from another adult.

There is no victim, there is no abuse.

From a criminal and judicial standpoint you are wrong, if she is under duress for any reason i.e. money troubles,taking care of her brother, landlord soliciting her for sex due to her financial situation this is a crime. Before consummating the arrangement this is considered psychological and/or emotional abuse and therefore solicitation of her for sex is indeed a form criminal activity. It moved from sexual harassment and abuse to rape the moment he had sex with her. Considering that the worst offense is the one that would be prosecuted the; rape hold priority over anything else he has done.

You act as if peoples financial situations can't change at the drop of a hat, maybe she could afford rent at first, and then money became an issue. If for any reason she felt she had no other option than to unwillingly accept an offer from the person who has control over her place of residence then he committed sexual assault. Yes, she could have found somewhere else to live, but that in and of itself can be a lengthy and time consuming process, especially if she is in a financial situation in which she would be unable to drop the money for a deposit AND pay her current landlord.

At the end of the day I've treated this as a thought experiment because I figure that is what it is. In the case that this whole thing is true it is a sad situation and should be reported to the authorities.

[Laize]

You people do realize that the man was the victim here? Prostitution is a crime, she's a criminal and he was the victim of the crime.

Soliciting a prostitute is also a crime. Think before you speak.

[pkm]

Words can't explain this fuckery. Is your brother human?

[Seegtease]

You act as if peoples financial situations can't change at the drop of a hat, maybe she could afford rent at first, and then money became an issue. If for any reason she felt she had no other option than to unwillingly accept an offer from the person who has control over her place of residence then he committed sexual assault. Yes, she could have found somewhere else to live, but that in and of itself can be a lengthy and time consuming process, especially if she is in a financial situation in which she would be unable to drop the money for a deposit AND pay her current landlord.

So you think he was wrong to give her the option? Would it have been better if he gave her no option, and said "this is the rent, these are the rules. You have to pay them or be evicted"?

Clearly, that would have been a worse thing to do, because if he had done that, she would be evicted. Which is what she chose to avoid. How is it better to have given her no choice than to have given her a choice, even if the choice is very unsavory?

How is a choice of A vs. B worse than a no choice, and forcing them to take A, no matter how bad choice B is? A is always there in both cases.

She clearly would rather have sex than be evicted. This much is evident because she made that choice. So people are demonizing him because he gave her a choice (that she opted to pick) rather than give her no choice (which is actually WORSE for her, since she didn't choose that option)?

[Chirajaeden]

So you think he was wrong to give her the option? Would it have been better if he gave her no option, and said "this is the rent, these are the rules. You have to pay them or be evicted"?

Clearly, that would have been a worse thing to do, because if he had done that, she would be evicted. Which is what she chose to avoid. How is it better to have given her no choice than to have given her a choice, even if the choice is very unsavory?

How is a choice of A vs. B worse than a no choice, and forcing them to take A, no matter how bad choice B is? A is always there in both cases.

She clearly would rather have sex than be evicted. This much is evident because she made that choice. So people are demonizing him because he gave her a choice (that she opted to pick) rather than give her no choice (which is actually WORSE for her, since she didn't choose that option)?

The difference is evicting a tenet for not paying rent isn't a crime, coercing them into having sex is. All this does is make the argument she had no choice otherwise but to agree to having sex with him, which is illegal. She may have a roof over her head but she is still being abused.

[Lolercaust]

So you think he was wrong to give her the option? Would it have been better if he gave her no option, and said "this is the rent, these are the rules. You have to pay them or be evicted"?

Clearly, that would have been a worse thing to do, because if he had done that, she would be evicted. Which is what she chose to avoid. How is it better to have given her no choice than to have given her a choice, even if the choice is very unsavory?

How is a choice of A vs. B worse than a no choice, and forcing them to take A, no matter how bad choice B is? A is always there in both cases.

She clearly would rather have sex than be evicted. This much is evident because she made that choice. So people are demonizing him because he gave her a choice (that she opted to pick) rather than give her no choice (which is actually WORSE for her, since she didn't choose that option)?

Lol he made her the offer because he wanted to get his dick wet every week, not because it seemed right to give her a choice in her financial situation. This guy has no defense because his interests were selfish, and the "choice" he offered her was despicable.

[PizzaSHARK]

Please explain to me how she does not abuse the landlord.

- he is unattractive, can't get laid. PREY ON THE WEAK
- he is overweight.
- she gets 600$ for 4 sex sessions. That's what, 3 minutes each? How much could a 29 year old virgin last?

He is clearly manipulated by her.

You can't fucking be serious. Jesus christ, I hope you're just joking.

[Jotaux]

You people do realize that the man was the victim here? Prostitution is a crime, she's a criminal and he was the victim of the crime.

In Canada prostitution is not a crime, so she isn't a criminal. It is however illegal to solicit a prostitute, and I would think this situation would qualify.

I would not go as far as to call it rape like some of the other posters, but what he is doing is illegal.

EDIT: I was mistaken, both buying and selling sexual services are legal in Canada. It's just surrounding activities, such as public communication for the purpose of prostitution, brothels and procuring that are offences under the criminal law. I don't think any of these laws were broken so it is more a moral issue. Unless anyone knows of a court case where sex was paid as rent in Canada, which would clarify whether this a criminal offense.

[Seegtease]

Lol he made her the offer because he wanted to get his dick wet every week, not because it seemed right to give her a choice in her financial situation. This guy has no defense because his interests were selfish, and the "choice" he offered her was despicable.

I realize why he did it is pretty disgusting, but bear with me. His motivation is kind of irrelevant. I'm trying to ask why what he did was worse than simply kicking her out. I'm running under the assumption that she was unable to pay the rent anymore. So we have:

A) He offers no alternate solution, and she gets evicted, nothing she can do about it.
B) He offers a pretty awful alternate solution, or she gets evicted.

He chose B, but it seems most people would prefer he chose A. However, being that the girl chose that alternate solution, she must also be in favor of him choosing B. She didn't want to be evicted for not paying her rent. It was a better choice.

Is a choice (even if the option is bad) better or worse than having no choice at all?

[Led ++]

No pun intended I suppose? No?

Also that straw man doesn't really make you right, it makes you more wrong. She's practically getting money for it.[COLOR="red"]

How on earth does it make me more wrong? That's basically what's happening. He's abusing his position as landlord against a young girl who already has enough trouble to live with. Clearly she is not feeling well with this "arrangement" but barely has a good alternative, again he's just making use of this.

If you find that normal moral behavior, then I'm pretty sure your morals are quite low themselves.

[pateuvasiliu]

You can't fucking be serious. Jesus christ, I hope you're just joking.

He has a penis so he must be guilty.

Am I doing this right, feminists?

[slime]

That poor girl =/
I hope she will be able turn her life around, go back to university and go on to great things.

Your brother is an immoral and unethical douchebag preying on the vulnerable. You know in your heart that what he's doing is wrong, or you wouldn't be on here. Talk to him about it, and see if you can help her out directly.

Sounds to me like he will make a very successful human.

[Laize]

Sounds to me like he will make a very successful human.

He already is a successful human (in the unlikely event the OP is factual and not fictional). The most successful businesses prey on the weak and ignorant whether they do it consciously or not.

[slime]

He already is a successful human (in the unlikely event the OP is factual and not fictional). The most successful businesses prey on the weak and ignorant whether they do it consciously or not.

Exactly. Qualities like these in a person are perfect for success in a capitistic society - and an exact example of nice guys finish last (or in this case, don't get laid).

[Lolercaust]

I realize why he did it is pretty disgusting, but bear with me. His motivation is kind of irrelevant. I'm trying to ask why what he did was worse than simply kicking her out. I'm running under the assumption that she was unable to pay the rent anymore. So we have:

A) He offers no alternate solution, and she gets evicted, nothing she can do about it.
B) He offers a pretty awful alternate solution, or she gets evicted.

He chose B, but it seems most people would prefer he chose A. However, being that the girl chose that alternate solution, she must also be in favor of him choosing B. She didn't want to be evicted for not paying her rent. It was a better choice.

Is a choice (even if the option is bad) better or worse than having no choice at all?

Yes, because of the nature of this arrangement. There is no true choice for the woman because free will is not an equitable option here; a 60% reduction in rent is huge, and in her situation she can't afford to refuse it.

Arguably, he did her a service by reducing her rent.