When your BF doesnt want to have sex with you anymore? My BF asked me to move in with him 6 mos ago, I moved in mid Sept and the intimacy was awesome. I felt wanted and needed and anything a female is supposed to feel. About a month and a half ago the intimacy went downhill. He would rather a bj than sleep with me. Its definitely not another girl as whenever he or I leave the house, we are together. We're pretty much together a lot. I tried to spice things up last week while he was raiding, by wearing something provocative to excite him, and he was... until after his raid when he went into the other room to go smoke weed with his brother. I didnt even get any sort of intimacy that night. I dont know how to make him understand how I feel, especially since when we started talking, before we had sex, we would talk about it and we were on the same path about how sex is important in a relationship. He says its not me and that he just doesnt feel like doing it at the moment... but theres a difference between not feeling like it at the moment and not doing it at all. Could I possibly get a sensible honest male to please tell me why this is happening? I know I wont get all honest answers and will mostly get trash ones but for once can someone or anyone please have an open mind and or heart and give a girl a thought out answer and possible solution? Thank you.