I need a question to ask to see if someone is into you or not because, if someone thinks she is into you. Then how do you know for sure? W/o asking straight up and making it awkward or weird if you see eachother.
Last edited by Pendulous; 2013-01-02 at 02:15 AM.
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Ask the person if they want to hang out with you some time.
If yes: they likely are into you and you can form your own opinion after the first day of hanging out.
If no: Move on.
Your panicing over nothing, just ask if she would like to hang out
It's simple and concise.
She may not necessarily think you like her and may perceive it to be on a friendly basis, but it is still a start towards something more.
I personally wouldn't ask that. The direct approach is the way to go for sure. If you were to ask that, it would be easier for the person to say "yes" as to not hurt your feelings and not mean it since there would be no definite date at that time and they know that you would ask them again in the future where they can say "maybe" or "I am busy on that day" or just a flat out "no". If you want a direct answer, you have to be direct yourself.
Hey, want to hang out sometime, me and you? It'll be fun!
Short, concise, right to the point, no commitment.
If she says yes, congrats.
If no, other fish in the sea etc etc
Go go! Best time of your life! woo!
I like all of your answers as it is not as easy, I dont want to jump into anything to serious just as friends I like getting to know people, I currently have a GF just want to get to know other people.( and it begins). I dont cheat or anything like that just wanting to get to know everyone. I am not even sure that other person is interested in anyone else.
Well if you aren't looking for a relationship with anyone else, make sure you tell them that you are only hanging out as friends so you don't lead them on.
Dude, man up and ask her to go do something, with as much confidence as you can muster.
However you ask, for the love of god, smile.
Never play leapfrog with a unicorn.
If you have a girlfriend I don't see why it matters if she's into. All it can do is lead to trouble.
And if you want to be friends and you think she's into you then you have to tell her upfront that your kindness is for a friendship and nothing more. And even then depending on age and our clingy your girlfriend is that could lead to trouble. Personally I'd say just stay away from them, if you like your girlfriend.