This probably comes up alot, but.... Is being completely turned off by a woman with any amount of children a dick/shallow move? It's not that I don't want kids or that i dislike/don't get along with them, I just would rather not get involved that way without the child being my own. I am 20 years old and girls with children seems to be a common place now that I get older, i'm pretty sure i'm not the only guy that's like this out there. For those who have taken the leap of faith, is it as bad as it seems from the outside or do I just have false illusions about it?