Ive lost everything now.

**naturetauren** · 2013-01-15, 06:57 PM

I am around 25 years old.

I lost my girlfriend.

I lost all of my friends.

I dont have any job.

I got permanent banned from one of my favorite games making me not having any more hobbies.

The only thing left is my family but im living with my mother at this age and its kinda sad.

I dont feel depressed or sad, no, i feel happy. I actually want to start a new life and i want to get a home just for myself.

Is this a good idea? Anyone who did it and felt good or did the life turn worser? I just want to feel like a newborn child and only help myself. Thats what i mean.

**det** · 2013-01-15, 07:00 PM

How did you lose "all" your friends?

GFs come and go, that is for sure.

A job? Even if you completely flunked school, jobs should be available, maybe not your dream job.

Will get life better or worse? Who can say. It works for some. Ofc you can still contract a terrible disease on top of whatever bad things happen to you....who can say?

**Ovacor** · 2013-01-15, 07:01 PM

Just do what you want to do man, you'll get nothing but people who think they can give "good advice" on these forums. Might I suggest the first rule of your new life is to not look for life advice over video game forums. Best of luck to you, hope things improve.

**Zeglo** · 2013-01-15, 07:03 PM

It's never too late. Rarely do people have a chance to "restart". Go for it and don't look back!

**Gamdwelf** · 2013-01-15, 07:03 PM

You should keep better track of your things.

**Felya420** · 2013-01-15, 07:04 PM

Just read the free will thread... There is nothing you could have done, are doing or will do, that you are not supposed to.

**heinevilla** · 2013-01-15, 07:04 PM

Seems like you have to 'reroll'... Just saying.
But "all" friends, sounds ridiculous.

**JimmyHellfire** · 2013-01-15, 07:06 PM

Yeah. Free will is an illusion, duuuude. All chemical reactions in your braiiin.

**cz75fan** · 2013-01-15, 07:08 PM

Well you live in Sweden so it's going to be ok.

**2chicken2die** · 2013-01-15, 07:10 PM

I don't think you can. Else you would have already imo.

**nemerus** · 2013-01-15, 07:13 PM

this means you could move and get a jobb anywere you want since there is nothing keeping you there. Iam assuming you lost contact with said friends then simple contact them again and see if there up for something and if there to busy ah well move on.

**naturetauren** · 2013-01-15, 07:13 PM

Yes i lost all of my friends because my GF made them switch to her side. So that made me really really pissed off and i will never forgive them. I just want to restart my life completely, starting with getting a new home to live in.

**Dabrix32** · 2013-01-15, 07:17 PM

Been there. You will get through it. The best thing about rock bottom is things can only get better. I was depressed to the point of suicide but after moving, a change of scenery, and new friends made things a lot better.

**Cattaclysmic** · 2013-01-15, 07:18 PM

How about going to university in another city? The SU and loans should suffice for an apartment away from your mom and new friends will be made.

**ifrah** · 2013-01-15, 07:19 PM

Originally Posted by naturetauren

I am around 25 years old.

I lost my girlfriend.

Your first (proper) one? If so, it's about time to lose the (almost) inevitable first. If not, you should know you haven't really lost even a fraction of everything here.

I lost all of my friends.

How? Was it the usual you met the girl you fell desperately in love and ceased pretty much all communication with every other person in your life. Now that you have lost that girl of your life, you are distant from your friends and feel like you have lost them? If so, don't worry, friends do last.
Or did you pull off some shit on them? Then it depends on the magnitude of the shit you did.

I dont have any job.

Do you have what kind of education? If not, then go go to school.

I got permanent banned from one of my favorite games making me not having any more hobbies.

To be honest I think you need some other sort of activity than your favorite game of addiction.

The only thing left is my family but im living with my mother at this age and its kinda sad.

Too often family is a thing that you don't value until/unless you lose it. Living with your mother is sad if you see it that way or you want to live on your own but just wasn't arsed to do anything about it.

I dont feel depressed or sad, no, i feel happy. I actually want to start a new life and i want to get a home just for myself.

Small moves. What's other than your own home in that new life? Depending on the current education, applying for a school outside your hometown is a good push to get along with the "new life."

**skrump** · 2013-01-15, 07:23 PM

Originally Posted by naturetauren

Yes i lost all of my friends because my GF made them switch to her side. So that made me really really pissed off and i will never forgive them. I just want to restart my life completely, starting with getting a new home to live in.

I would suggest by starting with getting a job to pay for that new home.

Or does Sweden supply free government mandated housing ? "they seem to provide just about everything else"

**Bergtau** · 2013-01-15, 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by naturetauren

Yes i lost all of my friends because my GF made them switch to her side. So that made me really really pissed off and i will never forgive them. I just want to restart my life completely, starting with getting a new home to live in.

Sounds like you can't admit you are wrong.

**Jackmoves** · 2013-01-15, 07:31 PM

Have you studied at a University?
Do you got the grades for it? If not apply to Komvux.
Study, get new mates at uni, get new gf at Uni, get a job.

Or whatever you feel like.

**naturetauren** · 2013-01-15, 07:34 PM

Shes a sick person. She flirted with them, they switched sides, she used them, i dont want to get into this anymore because this is just a forum but thats why i want to start a new life.

I finished the school with some Fs which made me lack points and im so done with trying to get those points back i just want to restart my life and wake up and totally ignore everything that happened. I am tired of fixing problems which i didnt make, i am sick of my friends/gf coming back and begging, all i want to do is start over and say "who are you btw? Get lost." :/

**Bergtau** · 2013-01-15, 07:37 PM

Originally Posted by naturetauren

Shes a sick person. She flirted with them, they switched sides, she used them, i dont want to get into this anymore because this is just a forum but thats why i want to start a new life.

I finished the school with some Fs which made me lack points and im so done with trying to get those points back i just want to restart my life and wake up and totally ignore everything that happened. I am tired of fixing problems which i didnt make, i am sick of my friends/gf coming back and begging, all i want to do is start over and say "who are you btw? Get lost." :/

Yeah, I'm not buying that at all. Also, if you don't want to get into something, don't post about it.

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