How would you react if you caught your GF or BF poking holes in your condoms?

[Kavoo]

2 condom posts in an hour, interesting train of thought today.

I'd dump her ass and got get myself checked out if that ever happened to me. That opens the door to a shitload of trust issues and mental health questions.

same thing.

[Jayburner]

i'm the 1 shot wonder when it comes to pregnancy. I `1shot it every time apparrent.y

[Verain]

instant walk away.
that's fucking crazy.

Exactly. This should be your immediate response. There's crazy, and then there's this.


It's uncommon, but it's enough of a thing that it's apparently worth worrying about. A bit.

[DEATHETERNAL]

I would wonder in panic where in blazes I got a girlfriend without remembering doing it. WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN??????

[HBpapa]

Um, when did dudes stop bringing their own jimmy's to the party?

Considering it would either be in my pocket, on my dick, or in the girl I think I'd notice her trying to poke a hole in it.

[Majad]

Um, when did dudes stop bringing their own jimmy's to the party?

Considering it would either be in my pocket, on my dick, or in the girl I think I'd notice her trying to poke a hole in it.

I don't know but I'm guessing a lot of women have male condoms with them. Even so, when you're opening the condom, how the hell do you have the time to poke it, also, you would be doing it in front of the guy...

And as for a guy poking a woman's condom, same thing really.

[Spikeydeath]

well...im abstaining from sex
so it wouldnt happen and it wouldnt matter if they did

[Anakso]

Yep I'd dump her. I don't need to be with someone that crazy. And it's not like I could ever trust her after that unless I got a vasectomy.

I don't think it's as common as that statistic says though, that seems insanely ridiculous.

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Um, when did dudes stop bringing their own jimmy's to the party?

I do believe this is talking about peoples girlfriends that they presumably live with and not random girls at a party. Usually guys keep their condoms in a draw and not all of them in their pocket so if at any point the guy is not in the same room as his condoms, that's when she could do it.

I don't know but I'm guessing a lot of women have male condoms with them. Even so, when you're opening the condom, how the hell do you have the time to poke it, also, you would be doing it in front of the guy...

And as for a guy poking a woman's condom, same thing really.

You poke it with a pin through the rapper, I'm guessing. It would still be hard to see if they used a small pin.

[Aeluron Lightsong]

Be very angry. I don't want kids JUST yet. When I do I will let you know about it.

[Letmesleep]

We'd talk about it like rational adults. I'd address the secrecy, deception, and why what she did wasn't acceptable. I feel fairly confident we could work it out.

[Anakso]

We'd talk about it like rational adults. I'd address the secrecy, deception, and why what she did wasn't acceptable. I feel fairly confident we could work it out.

But how could you ever trust her after that? Every time you take a condom out you'd have to question if she's done it again.

[Celltrex]

We'd talk about it like rational adults. I'd address the secrecy, deception, and why what she did wasn't acceptable. I feel fairly confident we could work it out.

This is not the treatment you should give to someone that just attempted to ruin your life.

[Letmesleep]

But how could you ever trust her after that? Every time you take a condom out you'd have to question if she's done it again.

I'd be wary for awhile, no doubt, but I still believe we could discuss what happened without totally ending the relationship. We're dealing with a hypothetical person right now, but I wouldn't be with someone who was habitually deceitful. If this was a single occurrence and I felt like we addressed it thoroughly, I see no reason not to give her another shot.

---------- Post added 2013-01-28 at 11:57 PM ----------

This is not the treatment you should give to someone that just attempted to ruin your life.

It is if I love them. It just depends on if this kind of behavior is normal for her or if she just messed up and did something really wrong.

[Sersel]

Apparently women sabotaging birth control isn't as uncommon as we'd like to believe. By now everyone's seen the 100+ page thread that says "42% of women would lie about birth control if they wished to become pregnant in spite of the wishes of their partner".

So now I ask you; - How would you react if you caught your partner poking holes in your condoms, or found out that she had never even purchased birth control pills despite telling you that she's currently taking them?

I'd probably keep it to myself and tell her the next day I cheated on her a few months ago and the woman I cheated her with had AIDS and we didnt use protection.
Then again..my GF shouldnt worry, as we always used condoms anyways right.....

[crackleslap]

Awkward because i'm a male seeking a male >.>

[smrund]

Get a lawyer.

[maddeliciousone]

I'd clearly leave her, even if that means that I'd have to face court. But well, it would still be my kid, so you'd never really know for sure...

[Nivis]

I'd probably keep it to myself and tell her the next day I cheated on her a few months ago and the woman I cheated her with had AIDS and we didnt use protection.
Then again..my GF shouldnt worry, as we always used condoms anyways right.....

This would easily be the best thing to do.

[Granyala]

Shut down any sort of relationship. Because I can't have one with a person I cannot trust.

We'd talk about it like rational adults. I'd address the secrecy, deception, and why what she did wasn't acceptable. I feel fairly confident we could work it out.

I would do that, but only if she was my wife for many years and I know that such behavior isn't normal. But I think that's not the question of the OP.

[esach88]

In Toronto just recently a man was found to be poking holes in his condoms and it resulted in his GF getting pregnant. he was charge with sexual assault and given 18 months in jail. would hope the same thing would happen to women if they were found lying about birth control or poking holes in condoms.