How would you react if you caught your GF or BF poking holes in your condoms?

**FusedMass** · 2013-02-02, 02:30 PM

Not to take away from the thread. Anyone find it odd the thread is bumped by a poster with one post after almost a week of it not being discussed.

It depends on the situation, personality and emotional and mental health of the person. It also depends if dating is serious or the person is a controlling freak.

**Bakis** · 2013-02-02, 04:02 PM

It is illegal I presume since you jeopordize your partners health, needless to say I would walk away and maybe more..

**Coke** · 2013-02-02, 04:13 PM

If I caught my boyfriend poking holes in our condoms, I'd have to make sure to give him a lil spanking. Those holes would make anal so messy.

**UnCorpse** · 2013-02-02, 04:28 PM

Probably talk over it, either stop using her or the condoms, depending where how much I love her, and how much I want a child.

Don't stick it in crazy.

**JimmyHellfire** · 2013-02-02, 04:31 PM

Dump her of course.

**Cybran** · 2013-02-02, 04:33 PM

Originally Posted by FusedMass

Not to take away from the thread. Anyone find it odd the thread is bumped by a poster with one post after almost a week of it not being discussed.

Maybe he read about the Torronto case and remembered this thread? I find it interesting that a guy poking holes in his GF condoms gets 18 months in jail, but women who do it all the time get 18 of financial aid and get to ruin their partner's life.

**DieFichte** · 2013-02-02, 04:35 PM

I don't know, getting a new girlfriend maybe? But then I'm not in such a situation, even if she wanted children, she just would have to ask.

But I like the 42% number, maybe it should be like "42% of women in the UK, that are in a relationship, that want to get pregnant without a partner sharing that wish." (not to mention how the sample size was distributed in that survey, because, last time I've looked at the other thread, we didn't know that) so it's prolly like .1 % of women, but, then it's easy to dodge this by being in a healthy relationship. (But then I guess at the current divorce rates, most people are not able to have a healthy relationship)

**FusedMass** · 2013-02-02, 04:40 PM

Originally Posted by Cybran

Maybe he read about the Torronto case and remembered this thread? I find it interesting that a guy poking holes in his GF condoms gets 18 months in jail, but women who do it all the time get 18 of financial aid and get to ruin their partner's life.

Come off it. I know dozens of men who get support from the females in finical support. There is no..war on men..

**DieFichte** · 2013-02-02, 04:43 PM

Originally Posted by FusedMass

Come off it. I know dozens of men who get support from the females in finical support. There is no..war on men..

It is in some countries according to quite some forum posts, but then, we didn't go crazy about economic problems in the 3rd world, why should we go crazy about social problems in the 2nd world? ^.^

**FusedMass** · 2013-02-02, 05:02 PM

Originally Posted by DieFichte

It is in some countries according to quite some forum posts, but then, we didn't go crazy about economic problems in the 3rd world, why should we go crazy about social problems in the 2nd world? ^.^

I cannot speak on other Country's. In the United States child support goes both ways. I know personally one person who has sole custody of their child. The Mother ends up having to pay him child support. Maybe this is reason why child support is such a hot topic issue. A court rules on which parent can have the child based the income (i.e. who is more responsible and finically capable of taking care of the child)

**Cybran** · 2013-02-02, 05:26 PM

Originally Posted by FusedMass

I cannot speak on other Country's. In the United States child support goes both ways. I know personally one person who has sole custody of their child. The Mother ends up having to pay him child support. Maybe this is reason why child support is such a hot topic issue. A court rules on which parent can have the child based the income (i.e. who is more responsible and finically capable of taking care of the child)

No it doesn't. Courts are heaviliy biased against males and them getting support is almost impossible.

**DieFichte** · 2013-02-02, 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by Cybran

No it doesn't. Courts are heaviliy biased against males and them getting support is almost impossible.

Like I said, 2nd world

The problem in the US isn't actually child support, it's alimony, some people I guess don't get the difference. (or are child support laws so fucked up that the money doesn't go where the child goes?)

**Zhangfei** · 2013-02-02, 05:40 PM

Originally Posted by Cybran

No it doesn't. Courts are heaviliy biased against males and them getting support is almost impossible.

Because comparably, fathers are more unreliable than mothers. It just reflects reality.

I expect the courts will balance out when deadbeat dads cease existing?

**NatePsychotic** · 2013-02-02, 05:41 PM

I'd be a little upset at first but then I would tell her that she could have just told me straight up that she wanted a child, I'm not too fussed with the parenting business, I am good with kids.

**Kasierith** · 2013-02-02, 05:45 PM

Originally Posted by DieFichte

Like I said, 2nd world

The problem in the US isn't actually child support, it's alimony, some people I guess don't get the difference. (or are child support laws so fucked up that the money doesn't go where the child goes?)

I assume you're trying to be cute rather than factual in any manner, seeing as 2nd world strictly refers to communism, which rose after the 1st world powers that were the old structures and empires of the centuries preceding world war I with the "first world" adopting the views of the Enlightenment and embracing capitalism and democratic-based governments, and contrasting with the third world countries that have not yet risen to power.

**FusedMass** · 2013-02-02, 05:48 PM

Originally Posted by Cybran

No it doesn't. Courts are heaviliy biased against males and them getting support is almost impossible.

Do you have any actual sources to back up this claim.

**checking facts** · 2013-02-02, 05:59 PM

I'd use it as an excuse to go in the backdoor

"oh, honey! that's so nice of you! if you wanted so much to have anal sex, you should have just told me

"

**Felya420** · 2013-02-02, 06:05 PM

Simple question... You break up... I'd probably tell everyone we know and cross the street when ever I see her...

**Defengar** · 2013-02-02, 06:08 PM

I would break up. If I found out she did it right after a bang session.

she will be eating a fucking pill whether she wants to or not

**Tiili** · 2013-02-02, 06:10 PM

Originally Posted by Defengar

I would break up. If I found out she did it right after a bang session.

she will be eating a fucking pill whether she wants to or not

You'd be in lots of trouble if you done that I bet, wouldn't exactly put you in good light.

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