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    Am emotionless for not caring about this girl threatening with suicide?

    I girl in my school has threatened to comit suicide when some nude pictures of her were sent around in my school. She were apparently in 7th grade when she took these pictures of herself, and were currently in the 10th grade. 1 picture of her boobs WITH a bra on, and then another, aimed slightly lower towards her vagina while having no underwear on. Because of the angle you cant see ANY details down below, so its not like a pornographic picture. From what i've heard the pictures were sent to a boy she was flirting with.

    Now the pictures found their way to our current school and have been sent around to many people and many people sent them further along. She have reported this to the police and then later threatened to comit suicide.

    Me and a couple of other people didn't give two shits about the pictures (which another friend showed us), and we dont give a crap about her comitting suicide or not. Are we emotionless for thinking this way? She took the pictures in the first place, and she sent them to that guy, who must've sent them to other people, so its "kinda" her fault for releasing the pictures to someone else she obviously couldn't trust.

    We didn't find the pictures interesting at all and after a quick look it was all "meh, whatever..." kinda feeling.

    So to wrap up, are we bad people for not caring about her, or the whole incident?

    PS: i've never had the pictures sent to me, and have never sent them to someone else.


    god damn typos everywhere... i need to go to bed.
    Last edited by Martinussen; 2013-01-27 at 09:26 PM.
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    Yes, you are. It might have been her "fault" that the photos were sent out in the first place, but actively propagating something that you are fully aware hurts her is an immoral thing to do. If you really don't care, than don't take part in it.

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    This reminds me about that story a while ago about a girl who really did commit suicide because her naked pictures leaked. I couldn't care less. Natural selection at its finest imo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Catanowplx View Post
    PS: i've had the pictures sent to me, or sent them to someone else.
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    I feel sorry for her and i don't even know her :S

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    Some girl is stupid enough to take naked pictures and send them to someone over the internet/Texting and then threatens to kill herself because of her stupidity. Darwinism, nothing to feel sad about.
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    Of course you're not being cynical. You have no affiliation with that girl, why should you care what she does?

    If you're friend threatened to commit suicide, you would support him/her, because you are affiliated with him/her in some way. You hear about these things all the time, in the new, on the internet. Should you feel sorry for those people too?

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    woops. typo at the end. i NEVER had the pictures sent to me, and NEVER sent them to anyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Waaldo View Post
    Some girl is stupid enough to take naked pictures and send them to someone over the internet/Texting and then threatens to kill herself because of her stupidity. Darwinism, nothing to feel sad about.
    I have to agree with Mr. Goldfish.

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    Sounds like a stupid whore, just like Amanda Todd.

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    Careful with those, getting caught with it could be a felony count

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    Just because you lack empathy in this case doesn't mean you lack empathy completely.

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    If you don't know the person I wouldn't say you're emotionless. Lots of people off themselves/threaten to do so daily, no need to feel sad for them all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diurdi View Post
    Just because you lack empathy in this case doesn't mean you lack empathy completely.
    There is a difference between a lack of empathy towards someone who has no impact in your life, which is understandable, and actively taking part in the problem.

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    I feel like people use suicide to often just to get attention, its just like a kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shop Ebay View Post
    I feel like people use suicide to often just to get attention, its just like a kid.
    Suicide to get attention? Really? <.<
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    I feel quite sorry for her, and I don't even know her... she's just a kid who made a stupid mistake, like many teenagers do, and got unlucky enough with it that it has come back to bite her on the ass really hard. Your teenage years are awkward enough, without the whole school laughing at naked pictures of you.

    It's a situation in a way that could happen to a lot of people (people can also snap you), especially with the prevalence of camera phones now.

    You are not emotionless, she's obviously not a friend of yours, but you should try and put yourself in her shoes for 2 minutes and imagine you got "caught with your pants down" so to speak, and publicly humiliated in front of all your peers. Please don't say you wouldn't care, or it could never happen because I'm sure thats just not true...

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    Holy Shit the attitude in this thread makes me weep for humanity.

    Yes she was stupid to send those pictures of herself. But you said those pictures were made when she was 12-13 years old. Kids at that age do a lot of stupid things. At least in ye olde days stupid stuff you did at that age rarely came back to haunt you several years later.

    The people who are sending this around and laugh at her, including those in this thread, are horrible, horrible people no matter what the girl did otherwise to earn so much hate. This is not Natural Selection. Natural Selection does not apply to psychology, and if this girl gets through this alive she'll probably be emotionally scarred for the rest of her life. All because she did a stupid thing when she was 12.

    Now you don't necessarily have to feel bad for her emotionally. But at least rationally you should be able to see that nobody's life is worth being ruined in such a way.


    She took the pictures in the first place, and she sent them to that guy, who must've sent them to other people, so its "kinda" her fault for releasing the pictures to someone else she obviously couldn't trust.
    Again. She was 12 when she took those pictures. And it seems like she could trust that guy for three years.
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    You're a better person than me. I would personally edge her on if she was serious about it. If you want to commit suicide over that, then you shouldn't be alive anyways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fernii View Post
    You're a better person than me. I would personally edge her on if she was serious about it. If you want to commit suicide over that, then you shouldn't be alive anyways.
    Good luck with that. It's illegal.

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