I'd say you were emotionless if your loved ones were killed in front of you and you didn't care or other extreme examples, but not in a situation like this, and especially not when she's the one at fault for creating the content and distributing it (Even if it was for his eyes only) in the first place.
Dumb people do dumb things. It happens. If she's going to threaten to kill herself over some nearly-nude pictures of herself, I doubt she'd be able to handle any kind of traumatic incident. Sure, it's unfortunate for her, and it's probably going to haunt her for many years if she decides to attempt to get over it, but that doesn't mean that you're emotionless 'cause someone done fucked up and you don't give a flying fartsicle.