A question for you ladies about your signals

[Reg]

I cannot believe you all don't use Private Browsing to conceal your perversitudes.

I don't need private browsing. No one else is allowed to touch my PC. I just like my porn compartmentalized.

[Deleted]

You can make it not sure certain pages though right? Can on Firefox...not that I have a need to ofc!

:')

Opening that page was quite entertaining.

[Deleted]

I cannot believe you all don't use Private Browsing to conceal your perversitudes.

Well in most cases i dont really care lol, as long as its youporn, xnxx or smthing it becomes a funny story at worst.
However when its e-hentai or smthing it could go bad fast :P

[Rukentuts]

However when its e-hentai

Some things I will never understand.

[Deleted]

Some things I will never understand.

exactly .

[Razorice]

I just like using Chrome because if you have that urge you can just click on your most favourite window

[Crianthia]

An erection is much easier to detect... lol

You sir just made me laugh loud enough during a lecture that half the class turned around wondering why LaPlace Transforms are SOOOO hilarious -.-

[Deleted]

You sir just made me laugh loud enough during a lecture that half the class turned around wondering why LaPlace Transforms are SOOOO hilarious -.-

because french people cant do math.

[Reg]

You sir just made me laugh loud enough during a lecture that half the class turned around wondering why LaPlace Transforms are SOOOO hilarious -.-

I do what I can.

*tips hat*

[skrump]

Not claiming I'm 100% right ofc, just giving my opinion here. Some guys really need a lot of pushing to make them kiss you for some reason.

Those tend to be the type of guys who want the women to initiate contact as they find a women's inhibition/ self confidence attractive.
I am one of those guys and their is nothing sexier than a women who pursues her interests instead of playing mind games.

[Rukentuts]

because french people cant do math.

They sure as hell know how to make out.

[Deleted]

They sure as hell know how to make out.

Depends on what the other person ate.

[Rukentuts]

Depends on what the other person ate.

Did you know french kissing leads to higher croissant use?

I love Sim City 3000.

[Pachycrocuta]

Those tend to be the type of guys who want the women to initiate contact as they find a women's inhibition/ self confidence attractive.
I am one of those guys and their is nothing sexier than a women who pursues her interests instead of playing mind games.

It is unfortunate that most girls seem to do the mind games instead of actually taking the initiative in starting the contact themselves. It is quite annoying.

[Deleted]

A lot of the same ones women do. Eyes going places they're thinking about, standing closer, fidgeting, etc. Many of them are similar but not the same - a nervous girl will play with her hair, and a nervous guy will run his hand through his hair - that sort of thing.

About the eyes it could be true. Standing closer somewhat. Fidgeting... not so much. Running hand through hair never.

But it's good to know.

[Grummgug]

This might be a little off-topic but could be useful for people in this thread.

Scientific studies have been done relating how you carry your body and your emotional state.

First some definitions:
1. Cortisol: a chemical relased by your body in times of stress.
2. Testosterone: a chemical released by your body in times of confidence.

This may sound amazing, if you sit with an "open posture", like leaning back with your arms stretched out and your legs spread wide for 30 minutes, it measurably lowers your cortisol production and boosts your testosterone production. This demonstrates that the posture itself relaxes a human being and makes them more confident. Likewise, if one adopts a "closed posture", with their arms bent inwards to their chest or head and the legs crossed or closed for 30 minutes, it measurably lowers their testosterone and boosts their cortisol. This also demonstrates that the closed posture itself makes a human being more anxious and less confident.

Its advised for example to sit with an open posture for 30 minutes prior to going out on a date or a job interview.

Here is the TED Talk discussing this phenomenon:
http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_y...o_you_are.html

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Most guys are terrible at reading signals. Most successful guys I know simply hit on anything that moves. They try to get 100 women, and keep going until one reciprocates. Its the "run it up a flagpole and see who salutes" strategy.

[crawdaddy029]

This might be a little off-topic but could be useful for people in this thread.

Scientific studies have been done relating how you carry your body and your emotional state.

First some definitions:
1. Cortisol: a chemical relased by your body in times of stress.
2. Testosterone: a chemical released by your body in times of confidence.

This may sound amazing, if you sit with an "open posture", like leaning back with your arms stretched out and your legs spread wide for 30 minutes, it measurably lowers your cortisol production and boosts your testosterone production. This demonstrates that the posture itself relaxes a human being and makes them more confident. Likewise, if one adopts a "closed posture", with their arms bent inwards to their chest or head and the legs crossed or closed for 30 minutes, it measurably lowers their testosterone and boosts their cortisol. This also demonstrates that the closed posture itself makes a human being more anxious and less confident.

Its advised for example to sit with an open posture for 30 minutes prior to going out on a date or a job interview.

Here is the TED Talk discussing this phenomenon:
http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_y...o_you_are.html

---------- Post added 2013-01-31 at 07:07 PM ----------

Most guys are terrible at reading signals. Most successful guys I know simply hit on anything that moves. They try to get 100 women, and keep going until one reciprocates. Its the "run it up a flagpole and see who salutes" strategy.

Actually this is really good for this topic. Being more relaxed can help you pick up those signals.

[THE Bigzoman]

Enough with the "signals" just say what's on your mind.

It is 1000x easier for me when I just ask her if she wants to make out.

Might have to grow a pair and try to be this direct. According to my peers, I suck balls at detecting when a girl is coming on to me.

[crawdaddy029]

Might have to grow a pair and try to be this direct. According to my peers, I suck balls at detecting when a girl is coming on to me.

it really depends on the signal too. That biting lip I talked about is a dead give away for a kiss. Some harder ones to pick up is say you are making out standing up. If you are not watching you wont see so make sure you open those eyes from time to time to see if she is getting bored or wants to move. If you can't detect boredom then make sure you are an adventurer, move around the room, kiss other areas frequently.

There is also sex that is wanted but not said or shown or even negated against in this case. Last night me and this girl had our first time. We were making out hard all night long, started at the movie theater and moved back to her office (I picked her up there and had to drop her off there for her car). Anyway she showed me what she does there then we continued the makeout session. I took off her shirt and told her that mine comes off too lol, anyway she said to me that the pants stay on (yes from here it gets tricky). I am kissing her all around her neck and back on the mouth while rubbing my (groin) against her (groin). She kept grabbing my (groin) outside my pants, at the 3rd time she did it I grabbed her hand and put it in my pants. Things get dirtier from there so that is where I will stop. But those signals I cannot stress enough to watch a video on you tube or go out with a friend that is great at picking them up and learn that shit man.

Being direct does not work, no matter what anyone tells you No does not mean No in the game of attraction.

The only thing i did not understand until now is that every woman in the world apparently does the same thing but does not realize it.

[PizzaSHARK]

It is unfortunate that most girls seem to do the mind games instead of actually taking the initiative in starting the contact themselves. It is quite annoying.

It's unfortunate that so many people think this is actually true, or that men don't do it just as often as women.