View Poll Results: As a man, do you get put off any physical contact with another man?

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  1. #321
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    It's pretty much all about culture. Being of European descent (Italian specifically) we are very touchy feely. Hugs amongst even aquaintances are common and kisses among good friends are the norm. It's perfectly understandable that many men will not feel that way though - and it doesn't make them insecure - it's usually just the way they were raised!

  2. #322
    despise any homosexual who talks with the wannabe girl voice. Tbh, those guys bring shame on the entire homosexual culture.
    homosexuals hating other homosexuals?! sad. hating special kinds of homosexual men? sad as well. some are really cute. let everyone be like he/she wants to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fizzbob View Post
    if a man wants to be touchy feely with another man he's gay.
    So women can hug and touch other women and not be lesbians but guys can?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarac View Post
    I despise any homosexual who talks with the wannabe girl voice. Tbh, those guys bring shame on the entire homosexual culture.

    That said, I wonder if some people are actually scared of gay people...well I know there are such people but I just wonder what it is that scares them.
    So do you despise any straight guy who has to deep of a voice and too macho of a sound? They don't bring shame to the homosexual culture, they don't bring shame to me, they are who the fuck they are and if that's how they are so be it. Most gay guys aren't like that , but most straight guys don't have super deep very macho voices either. I am really sick of seeing gays hate on other gays for how they are when we're all pretty much hated by masses of other people for pretty much the same damn thing. It's so stupid...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dhany View Post
    homosexuals hating other homosexuals?! sad. hating special kinds of homosexual men? sad as well. some are really cute. let everyone be like he/she wants to be.
    Its not that rare.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dhany View Post
    homosexuals hating other homosexuals?! sad. hating special kinds of homosexual men? sad as well. some are really cute. let everyone be like he/she wants to be.
    Oh there's lots of gays hating gays and then the gays that are being hated by other gays, hating bisexuals.

    If we were to make a little hierarchy chart it'd be.

    "Straight-acting" Homosexual
    Homosexual
    Transexual
    Flamboyant Homosexual
    Bi-sexual
    Last edited by Themius; 2013-02-02 at 09:39 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Themius View Post
    Oh there's lots of gays hating gays and then the gays that are being hated by other gays, hating bisexuals.

    If we were to make a little hierarchy chart it'd be.

    "Straight-acting" Homosexual
    Homosexual
    Transexual
    Flamboyant Homosexual
    Bi-sexual
    Yeah, its pretty ironic, you would expect a group that has been subject to so much hate to be more tolerant of themselves.
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  7. #327
    hugs and stuff? thats fine to me. however rolling around on the ground and wrestling and stuff O-O eh not a fan of that unless its actual fighting
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    So women can hug and touch other women and not be lesbians but guys can?
    pretty much

    but, i mean, if it floats your boat then who gives a fuck? if i didn't feel like hugging other men was extremely effeminate and someone told me it was, i'd invoke my greatest words of wisdom; "Why don't you go fuck yourself?"

    I don't like it, it isn't for me. If you don't mind it, that is your thing. If you're worried about someone thinking you are gay because you are hugging another dude, you are paying too much attention to stupid people.

    Yeah, its pretty ironic, you would expect a group that has been subject to so much hate to be more tolerant of themselves.
    i don't know

    i think everyone hates the flamboyant gay

    hes the kind of guy who gets up on a soapbox and has to tell everyone that he's here and he's queer

    Or one of those really stupid people who butt in on someone else's conversation when they describe something they don't like as "gay". Who are not always necessarily gay, but are as annoying as the guy who is blatantly going out of his way to make it painfully apparent that he likes the D.

    But conversely, I think a lot of people would be annoyed with me if I stood out in front of a mall and asked every female that walked by if she wanted to be fucked with the force of a jackhammer.

    goes both ways. like a bisexual.

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  9. #329
    nope not really long as it your friend and not in a sexual kiddies

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    i have no problem inside the boundries of mma and wrestling but outside those arenas, yes, i do have a problem being touched by other men.

  11. #331
    Yes. To be fair I don't really like touching anyone.

  12. #332
    "Why don't you go fuck yourself?"
    You are the best friend I always wanted

    /hug

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    i don't know

    i think everyone hates the flamboyant gay

    hes the kind of guy who gets up on a soapbox and has to tell everyone that he's here and he's queer
    That's being a stereotype. You want to know what I did for a version of "im here get use to it?".

    Best friend wore a pregnancy gown and she stuffed a pillow up the gown looked like she was pregnant. We walked to jack in the box and I wore a sign that pointed to her saying "im gay it's not mine". 2 mormons pulled up in a car asking about have you heard the word of god. We turned to them and they stared, rolled up the window, and drove off.

    Best day ever.

    Or one of those really stupid people who butt in on someone else's conversation when they describe something they don't like as "gay". Who are not always necessarily gay, but are as annoying as the guy who is blatantly going out of his way to make it painfully apparent that he likes the D.
    Key word here is people, and they can butt in conversations about anything regardless of its gay or not. It's just that type of person.

    But conversely, I think a lot of people would be annoyed with me if I stood out in front of a mall and asked every female that walked by if she wanted to be fucked with the force of a jackhammer.
    Some will take you up on that offer for a price.

  13. #333
    I think the term "afraid" is a bit out of place here. If you'd replace it with a general repulsiveness towards being "touchy" with guys, well that would suit most of the guys I guess.
    It's not the fact that some douches would consider it " omg fake and gay " but it's all about the individual and hes mind set. For example, I don't hug anything that doesn't give me a boner....

  14. #334
    Quote Originally Posted by Alenarien View Post
    Everyone wants everyone to conform to their perceived norms; it's where the term 'normative' comes from. Not sure what point you were trying to make here.
    People may wish everyone conformed to their norms. The problem starts when it breeds dislike, discrimination, even hate. The point I am making is people should tolerate and cherish diversity instead of becoming hateful monsters.

    If one dislikes all people who don't conform to his norm, then that will be lot of people hating one another.

  15. #335
    Quote Originally Posted by Dhany View Post
    homosexuals hating other homosexuals?! sad. hating special kinds of homosexual men? sad as well. some are really cute. let everyone be like he/she wants to be.
    Can you blame him? It's not uncommon to dislike people that are members of the same group as you are because you think they perpetuate stereotypes. He doesn't like being stereotyped as a limp-wristed high-pitched flamboyant person, so he doesn't like people that further reinforce that stereotype.

    If you were a part of a particular race, lifestyle, or culture, would you want members of that group to create a stereotype that all of you are stupid? I certainly wouldn't, and disliking those people is a perfectly reasonable feeling.

  16. #336
    The homophobia in this thread is off the chart. The only people who have an issue with this sort of contact are the ones insecure in their sexuality or of the extremely homophobic variety.

  17. #337
    I don't have a problem with hugging another man. That being said, it would not be common for me to be the one to initiate the hug, unless it's with family. Like, I'm not gonna go up to one of my friends and try to hug them, they'd be like, "WTF dude?" but if one of my friends tried to hug me it wouldn't bother me.

    I'm generally pretty easy going though, and I can understand how a hug could make someone uncomfortable.
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  18. #338
    Quote Originally Posted by Zulandia View Post
    The homophobia in this thread is off the chart. The only people who have an issue with this sort of contact are the ones insecure in their sexuality or of the extremely homophobic variety.
    How do you know they're insecure with their sexuality? Maybe they just don't like it. It really can be that simple.

  19. #339
    I'm comfortable with my sexuality, so the answer is no.

    I do have a small personal space issue (in rare situations) with people I don't know but generally I am a very easy going person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zulandia View Post
    The homophobia in this thread is off the chart. The only people who have an issue with this sort of contact are the ones insecure in their sexuality or of the extremely homophobic variety.
    The assuming in this thread is off the charts as well. You know the saying about assuming.

    But I have to be either homophobic or insecure about my sexuality to not want to touch other men. I surely can't just not like touching other men because I don't like to.

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