You can't argue with those people, thus I said bye. And you didn't help either by pointing out mistakes and giving seriously "weird" one liners. Again, even in this thread your contribution equals zero.
I can speak out of experience. I grew up surrounded by girls, not by boys. I have many female friends today and they all understand my playboy'ish behavior and they know that I am a truly good person. I make my intentions very clear before anyone gets hurt.My experience is that some straight guys have never learned to interact with women as just people. They grow up, have friends of the same gender, and then hit puberty--and then, and only then, do they start interacting with girls. It creates a mindset where hanging out with girls is only associated with sexual desire. So if that desire isn't there, they just don't do it.
I have a few straight guy friends who seem to really suffer from this. IMO, it's something a person can overcome. It's just a psychological association that needs to be broken.
And as long as you don't fuck around with their emotions it's all fine. You just have to find girls who think like you... You don't go and sleep with a girl that's in love with you if you don't love her back. That's a dick move and you are the worst if you do so.