There are male Blood Elves?
Feminine isn't the word I'd use. Flamboyant, perhaps.
If World of Warcraft has taught me anything, it's that teaching a crowd something is far harder than teaching individuals.
I think that most of the Horde players that call them gay/feminine simply do it because they only want real "monsters" in their faction. So as soon as a race like Elves comes along the male are more feminine than any female in the game because roar, blood and honor /flex
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No, not feminine. Good looking studs, the kind you can imagine working as underwear models.
Now you see it. Now you don't.
Dont have smth against long hair etc. ... but their horrendous posture, animations, placement of shoulder equipment etc. makes them unbearable for my taste. Not exactly gay or feminine, but these aspects are just overdone.
I do think they're yes, that probably why I never played one!