Offer to split the bill, if she says no, reject her. If you don't want to deal with a kid at all, 100% sure say no.
I guess when you put it that away, it doesn't sound that bad. You'll find it's common for men not to notice when a woman has never shown interest in them but they still ask them out...a lesson learnt.
Oh well, that simple fact is true; women will continue to gold dig for the simple reason that men continually let them by expecting some sort of sexual favor.
It's people like you that make single parents lives harder by avoiding them just because they have a kid.
Humans fear the beast within the wolf because they do not understand the beast within themselves.
I suggest not pursing this, because you already have a negative outlook on her, and don't seem to like her. Barring the possibility she might just want a free lunch, thats no way to start a relationship.
I also think if she "likes you" she would ask you to dinner instead of lunch.
Last edited by Self Inflicted Wounds; 2013-02-10 at 09:45 AM.
You are literally using them. The point of asking someone out isn't so you can get a free meal, its to learn more about someone, whether that leads to love or a relationship. Its really just a scummy move on your part. You don't like this person, but will let them give you a gift?
its clear she will most likely use you looking at the evidence, so play her at the same game. switch the lunch for dinner, have drinks after, bang her, and then move on. problem solved.
Okay and the question was?
Or are you asking for MMO-C's reaction to the whole situation which can be summed up in your own words:
What is the point of this thread.Bitch
Why are cell phones socially mandatory? I don't have one, and I don't plan on getting one. I see no reason to waste all that money each month on something I don't need. Seeing as most of these cell phone fanatics have internet on their phones anyway, they can just as easily message me on my computer. Of course, anyone that vain probably isn't my type anyway, I suppose.
But in any case, I'd have the lunch and gauge her intentions from there. She has a kid, and while that's a major turn off for me as well, it wouldn't stop me from having lunch with someone who claims to like me (you should be able to tell if someone means it.) She could turn out to genuinely mean it and be nice, you never know. Being a single parent is rather expensive (unless she's getting child support which (being the favored female) is very likely) so there's a chance she's not just blowing smoke about not having much spending money. However, if you already know you're not interested at all and that it won't change, just tell her no as nicely as you can.
And to the girl saying you take up free meals and whatnot, you're missing the point. It's wrong because by you accepting, you're encouraging them to keep trying by default. If you have no interest in someone, do them the courtesy of saying so. What you're doing is one very small step away from use and lose.
If you gonna be stuck with a freeloader then you might as well find one that you like.
Say no, seriously !!!!
Also if you do fuck her against all suggestions and common sense make sure to use a condom You can never know how she got the first kid (i mean if she lied to the guy about taking the pill ect.) I know some chicks who do stuff like this to get money from the fathers....