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I'm a social outcast. I go to secondary education and I sit by myself in the corner. Yeah. I want to go sit with the girls but how. I have no idea what to say or talk. What If i sit there silently and they think I'm a stalker or something.
Will they get annoyed or offended if I sit with them??
Should i approach them or let them approach me?? I have started the course recently and I wanna do something before time just goes by..
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Thread: How do i talk to girls.
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2013-02-12, 03:50 PM #1Dreadlord
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How do i talk to girls.
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2013-02-12, 03:52 PM #2Deleted
Talk to them like you would anyone else, otherwise awkwardness.
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2013-02-12, 03:53 PM #3Banned
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You vocalise words with your vocal cord, and speak like you would to any other typical member of the community.
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2013-02-12, 03:53 PM #4Brewmaster
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Just be yourself. Only you can "outcast" yourself socially, it is generally more of a mentality than it is an actual action by others. In life you will learn that some people simply will never like you, others you just wont have much in common with.
But talking to girls? Just wait for a moment where you can bring something up, or make a cheesy joke. Alot of girls appreciate the effort. If you just want to be friends its even easier.
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2013-02-12, 03:54 PM #5Dreadlord
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I find that acting confident helps.
Being awkward for too long will create a stigma around your person, and you'll be labeled a loser. That's why highschool losers are often able to redeem themselves in college, because now you got a fresh start with new people, and that stigma can be washed away.
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2013-02-12, 03:55 PM #6Elemental Lord
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Women are people too, ya know.
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2013-02-12, 03:55 PM #7Titan
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... Why do people need advice talking to women? They're humans, they don't have any unique access protocols you need to follow >_>
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2013-02-12, 03:56 PM #8Legendary!
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Fake it 'til ya make it! Soon enough, you'll have faked it for long enough that it'll just be normal and you'll feel confident where you wouldn't in the past
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2013-02-12, 03:56 PM #9Banned
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Well that can't be right, nobody told me! D: Originally Posted by Regennis
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2013-02-12, 03:57 PM #10Field Marshal
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Just talk to them like you would anyone else. Sure, the whole "treat her like a princess thing" can be cute.. But most modern women (depending on where you live) enjoy to be talked to like a normal person. Show genuine interest and things will go well.. Fake confidence until you trick yourself into thinking you have it. All guys have been down that road at some point in their lives, the ones who pushed past it are the ones whose genes make it to the next generation!
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2013-02-12, 03:58 PM #11Herald of the Titans
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Okay. You're going to class.
Open the door, get on the floor, everybody do the dinosaur.
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2013-02-12, 03:59 PM #12Field Marshal
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"Hi, I'm a level 90 druid."
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2013-02-12, 03:59 PM #13The Patient
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Just go up to them and start talking about an iPhone or something.
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2013-02-12, 04:00 PM #14The Insane
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Who allowed you to speak!? Originally Posted by semaphore
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2013-02-12, 04:00 PM #15Field Marshal
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This works too. Originally Posted by Sevyvia
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2013-02-12, 04:01 PM #16Blademaster
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An icebreaker can be asking about last class' homework. Follow it up with asking something more "casual" like about the snow and if they made any snow angels (smile when you say this ofc) Originally Posted by jimmy valmer
Take it from there.
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2013-02-12, 04:02 PM #17Banned
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!! Originally Posted by Cattaclysmic
I'm sorry, please don't beat me, those bruises haven't faded yet...
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2013-02-12, 04:02 PM #18Fluffy Kitten
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Open your mouth and let the words come out. Preferably in normal sentences.
No really, just ask them how their weekend was or whatever. Share your stories, talk about hobbies... Hmm, this sounds so bad as advice. Maybe because I have lady friends and we talk about nothing but do silly things. Not that I'd try to impress a girl with acting like an idiot though.
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2013-02-12, 04:03 PM #19The Insane
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Dont be so crude. I dont beat women. I have women to do that for me... Originally Posted by semaphore
:P
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2013-02-12, 04:03 PM #20The Insane
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Maybe you should start with some guy friends before asking out girls.
Crawl before you walk, eh?
