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    Question How do i talk to girls.

    I'm a social outcast. I go to secondary education and I sit by myself in the corner. Yeah. I want to go sit with the girls but how. I have no idea what to say or talk. What If i sit there silently and they think I'm a stalker or something.
    Will they get annoyed or offended if I sit with them??
    Should i approach them or let them approach me?? I have started the course recently and I wanna do something before time just goes by..

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    Talk to them like you would anyone else, otherwise awkwardness.

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    You vocalise words with your vocal cord, and speak like you would to any other typical member of the community.

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    Just be yourself. Only you can "outcast" yourself socially, it is generally more of a mentality than it is an actual action by others. In life you will learn that some people simply will never like you, others you just wont have much in common with.

    But talking to girls? Just wait for a moment where you can bring something up, or make a cheesy joke. Alot of girls appreciate the effort. If you just want to be friends its even easier.

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    I find that acting confident helps.
    Being awkward for too long will create a stigma around your person, and you'll be labeled a loser. That's why highschool losers are often able to redeem themselves in college, because now you got a fresh start with new people, and that stigma can be washed away.

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    Women are people too, ya know.

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    ... Why do people need advice talking to women? They're humans, they don't have any unique access protocols you need to follow >_>

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    Quote Originally Posted by pucGG View Post
    I find that acting confident helps.
    Fake it 'til ya make it! Soon enough, you'll have faked it for long enough that it'll just be normal and you'll feel confident where you wouldn't in the past

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    Quote Originally Posted by Regennis View Post
    Women are people too, ya know.
    Well that can't be right, nobody told me! D:

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    Just talk to them like you would anyone else. Sure, the whole "treat her like a princess thing" can be cute.. But most modern women (depending on where you live) enjoy to be talked to like a normal person. Show genuine interest and things will go well.. Fake confidence until you trick yourself into thinking you have it. All guys have been down that road at some point in their lives, the ones who pushed past it are the ones whose genes make it to the next generation!

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    Okay. You're going to class.

    Open the door, get on the floor, everybody do the dinosaur.

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    "Hi, I'm a level 90 druid."

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    Just go up to them and start talking about an iPhone or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by semaphore View Post
    Well that can't be right, nobody told me! D:
    Who allowed you to speak!?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sevyvia View Post
    Okay. You're going to class.

    Open the door, get on the floor, everybody do the dinosaur.
    This works too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jimmy valmer View Post
    I'm a social outcast. I go to secondary education and I sit by myself in the corner. Yeah. I want to go sit with the girls but how. I have no idea what to say or talk. What If i sit there silently and they think I'm a stalker or something.
    Will they get annoyed or offended if I sit with them??
    Should i approach them or let them approach me?? I have started the course recently and I wanna do something before time just goes by..
    An icebreaker can be asking about last class' homework. Follow it up with asking something more "casual" like about the snow and if they made any snow angels (smile when you say this ofc)

    Take it from there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cattaclysmic View Post
    Who allowed you to speak!?
    !!

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    Open your mouth and let the words come out. Preferably in normal sentences.

    No really, just ask them how their weekend was or whatever. Share your stories, talk about hobbies... Hmm, this sounds so bad as advice. Maybe because I have lady friends and we talk about nothing but do silly things. Not that I'd try to impress a girl with acting like an idiot though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by semaphore View Post
    !!

    I'm sorry, please don't beat me, those bruises haven't faded yet...
    Dont be so crude. I dont beat women. I have women to do that for me...

    :P

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    Maybe you should start with some guy friends before asking out girls.

    Crawl before you walk, eh?

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