What? "Bad boys" were fun in teen years, not so much now in my 20s. I'm with my boyfriend because he's caring and loving, I could see havnig a child with him in the future aswell, that does not hold true for "bad boys". I'd never want to have a child with someone like that.
Drama I had enough of in my teen years.
No, I've had very few arguments with my boyfriend and none of them have even gotten to the point of raising the voice.
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If I was you OP I'd quickly distance myself from this 'friend'. First time it's ok - we all make mistakes. Second time - it's ok we all make mistakes. Third time - it's kind of ok, some of us make mistakes twice. Fourth, fifth, sixth time - the problem is with her, not other men.
Some people just thrive off drama. The people that thrive off drama and this kind of petty stupid shit have no part to play in my life so I cut 'em loose.
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Lol, and a large amount of women are vacuous, money-grabbing, self-obsessed, vain, prissy dumb-asses. GENERALISATIONS AHOY!
you might do that, but you will always see the "10" in your class who is smart and everything your current "7" have, and go for the "10" instead. Ofc if you were sitting infront of miss 7 and miss 10, and you were looking for a relationship, and 10 happend to be "stupid", then you would go for miss 7.
But what you said about "curves", people will rate diffrently aswell, maybe your 8 would be a 6 to me and so on.
But my point was, people say "personality matters", but if you go for a 2, then how are you going to be attracted to this person when you rate them as 2? Even if they have a "good personality". I might be friends with women im not attracted to at the university, but wouldn't sleep with them ever.
Hmm well aslong as you "give them a chance" then doesnt really matter. But same with "gender roles" need to go, as with "bad boys have tattoos and motorcycle" have to go.
If you take 1 man, and put him in "University look" and "Motorcycle look", all you change would be the clothing/hair style. Then people will judge that man on the way he looks to explain if he is a good guy or a bad guy. Not saying people cant be cautious or avoid any of the types. But when people say "He is a bad guy blabla" based on wether you own a motorcycle and have tattoos just is annyoing as hell.
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“The worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I hate that.”
I apply my own logic when it comes to female friends:
- friend's girlfriends I don't consider them my friends. I view only their boyfriends as my friends, this removes any chance for them to cheat with me or me to view them as anything sexual.
- female friends that are not interested in me or I am into them are semi-friends. Talk, activities, never do stuff with them once drinking is involved. Better let them find another guy to hook up if they are into that kind of stuff or in the very rare occasion a "console" intercourse.
- female friends that I am interested in. Try to find out if thet feel the same, get it to work, if not remain somewhat friends or (depending on case) cut all ties. Would not invest more with no possible outcome.
This makes the whole situation simplier, more logical.
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