This is a double-standard often used and abused. The fact is that it takes two to make a baby. Even if you opt for a "test-tube" infant you still need a "donor." As such I think it's only acceptable that the father, should he wish to be involved, be given a say during the pregnancy. Like-wise should the mother deny the father any say, assuming he want's to have one, then she should not be able to petition for things such as support.
After all she wanted total control and responsibility for the pregnancy, right?
To the OP: it is not your place or mine to tell a woman or a family how to live their life, nor how to deal with the consequences that life brings us. The very same pro-lifers want to ban all public sex education, they want to ban all forms of publicly funded birth control, they do not want women to even be allowed to talk to their doctors regarding what and how they can avoid unwanted pregnancies.
All that aside, bringing an unwanted child into the world, then basically ignoring all of their most basic needs as they grow through childhood, adolescence, adulthood, and old age is something society typically does not want to invest in. Sure, there are a few abortions done because people were irresponsible, but the majority is because the parent(s) are not in any position to give the lifetime of care and support that this new child will need, and society is not going to step up to the plate. Yes, we lose on potentially good, upstanding citizens. But we also don't breed a generation of what prolifers like to call "welfare babies and jailhouse population".
We can sit here til next decade and not change each other's position on this issue. But neither you, nor me, has the right to tell a mom what she can or cannot do with her body. If she is willing to take the psychological and physiological burden of an abortion, then all the power to her. I would much rather have 1 child that grows in a loving, caring home with parents that truly want that child, than 20 children that are unloved and unwanted.
Stop playing dictator. Live your life for yourself. Don't try to preach onto others.
It's neither.
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What's terrible about saving a life?
Is an accident or a rape enough reason for you to forfeit your own life?
You would be ok if you didn't exist because some women somewhere made the mistake of having unprotected sex due to being drunk at a party?
Is that enough reason for you to disappear?
I find this thought process terrible.
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For the thread name; there isn't really a right or wrong answer to the question. Its neither imo. Or as I like to call it; a necessary evil.
The moral areas of abortion is grey, but do you really think a total ban to it would be a good solution? I think we already have a good middle-way solution, the 12 weeks rule.
Side-eyeing you hard because of your assumption that the woman is in the wrong when it could very much be the guy who refused to use a condom because "it doesn't feel as good!".
If any man/boy in here is so against abortion, wrap your dicks up! Protect yourselves and all those potential fetuses as well! Takle some responsibility yourselves instead of always dumping it on the girl in question. Sheesh.
This is wrong on so many levls...
No non-intrusive prevention system is fail proof.
Raped women dont have the choice to have "safe sex"
Those are only two examples of how your kind of mentality fails to take into consideration the women that is having to make such a difficult choice.
You dont dissapear, you never appear in the first place. You dont exist. You are just a collection of cells at that point.
And you trying to simplify the situations that lead to a woman having to make such a choice makes you a troll or a person having a terrible thought.
Infracted: Don't call other users a "troll".
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hardly looks like a "bunch of cells" to me
I think it's killing, but alot of wrong things go in the world, it's something I will never take part in
fact is you can even have late term abortions up to around 8 months, a 8 month baby can live outside the womb, nothing but infantcide
Infracted: Don't post NSFW images please.
Last edited by mmoc58a2a4b64e; 2013-03-12 at 12:30 AM.
We are denied the right to it until it is no longer illegal to abort and even then the mothers health and safety would override the fetus.
The fathers right to autonomy or offspring can and should not override the mothers.
Imagine the fathers family having Huntington's. The father does not know if he has and does not wish to know. However he has gotten a woman pregnant who wants to abort the fetus should it be shown to have Huntington's. If the child is shown to have Huntington's then the father has it too. Should the mother's right to know be overridden by the fathers right to not to know?
If your answer is yes, then should the child once it is born never be able to be tested for it as long as the father does not wish to know?
It has everything to do what is right or wrong if you ignore that then you condom murder. You need to make a personal decision when does a human life begins. some believe at conception some believe when a fetus is viable out side the womb and some believe at birth, when you make that personal decision anything after that time is murder
Human parasites (the unemployed, those who live off welfare, etc) should have that liberty, yes.
You want to make a solely legalistic argument? Wonderful, so all I need to do is get the law to say that black people don't legally exist as people and then slavery is A-okay in your book, right? Oh, it isn't? Then make up a half way decent argument.
The same arguments used by the slave masters.... I am called crazy, yet the abortionists themselves show it all too clearly.
And I looked, and behold a pale horse: and his name that sat on him was Death, and Hell followed with him.
Revelation 6:8
For me it depends on the situation, if it's conception through rape then no I wouldn't think an abortion would be wrong. Now if the couple had unprotected sex, with no plans of getting pregnant, then decided to abort there might be a problem(same goes for those financially unable to support a child but get pregnant anyway). If you are unable to support the new child or don't want one to begin with you should take the proper precautions(both male and female members) otherwise deal with the consequences.