Have you ever tried to date a big girl/big guy based off of personality? If your answer is yes, then you're just like me. Back in my early twenties I tried to date a big girl off of her personality. The thing about her was that she was big and very unattractive. I've dated her purely based off her personality. She felt very self-conscious about her looks. She felt like I looked better than her. The one thing I think men and women really need to understand, no one in life is going to be with you because you simply exist. We all have to do things in life to make our self-more attractive to the opposite sex. Hell if it was not for women I wouldn’t, take a bath, have a job, move out of my mammas basement, go to the GYM or eat healthy. If I didn't do most of them things, do you think anyone would be with me? I think as a society yes some people can be overly superficial; they are the people you skip over. But were all biologically wired a certain way, and no matter how bad it may look or may not look, it is what it is. And at the end of the day, nothing's going to change. So ladies and gentleman, improve what you can about to self, politically correct answers are not going to change a damn thing.
PS As for that big girl I dated, I left her.
Special note: This applies to all sexual preferences, no bias here.
A little background.
These are some of the problems that arise from dating someone you're not attracted too.
Very unattractive woman:
Taller than me:
She couldn't wear makeup because she had bad skin:
Big open pores on her face:
She ate like a man; she sucked on the chicken bones till all of the meat was off of it. Also ate way to much.
Very self-conscious about herself:
I never wanted her to touch me because I was not attracted to her.
Never wanted her to kiss me because I was never attracted to her.
I never wanted her to touch me during intimacy.
She started to ask me difficult ass questions, like baby be honest with me, are you attracted to me? And I really didn't know how to answer these kinds of questions.
Never ever again will I ever do this again. If this makes me superficial then I'm superficial.