What if dating was like this

[Unoriginal]

It's like a cute person of your preference came up to you and was like "okay your my boy/girl friend now, any questions?"
id be like, im okay with this.

As a decent looking guy, when i go out and girls check me out i'm like WHAT DO I DO SHES CUTEBUTICAN'TKEEPMYCOMPOSURE.

[Ninjaturtle]

Well it would cut out a bunch of the annoying parts.

Would be strange would need to be two people capable of going Meh whats the worst that could happen.

[xindralol]

There is more to a relationship than being cute.

this^
what you're looking for is more like a sex buddy than a real relationship. most girls need the relationship part though

[Zen4lyfe]

thats to controliing, if they say you are mine, what else will they command over you

[Deleted]

It's like a cute person of your preference came up to you and was like "okay your my boy/girl friend now, any questions?"
id be like, im okay with this.

I would be pretty freaked out if someone came up to me and decided that on the spot.

[rayvio]

anyone who acted like that would have to be pretty unstable. don't get me wrong, crazy girls can be fun, but they don't make for a lasting and stable relationship
now if a girl comes up and says "hi, want to grab a drink?" or something and turns out to have an interesting personality and sense of humour then that's another story

[Puppy]

Yeah I'm pretty bad at dating too.. BUT I feel that would make relationships very unstable.

[Volikov]

Is this thread 4 realz?

[Sunnydruid]

Pretty sure that's how it went in elementary school and that is where it should stay.

[Reg]

Now, if at the age of 28 and a woman walked up to me and said "You're my penis tonight", I would be completely fine with that.

[rayvio]

think I'd find that pretty off-putting too, although slightly less stalkery. I like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say so but an introduction like that would just be impersonal and empty

[lunaru]

probably a troll, but i'd definitely want to know more about someone before i date them

they could be a rapist or murderer for all i knew.

[Deleted]

they could be a rapist AND a murder...

[Sunnydruid]

they could be a rapist AND a murder...

And so could you neighbor/boss/coworker/barista/bagger at the grocery store. I completely get what you are saying but I figured i'd point that one out.

OT- If that is all the world knew then it wouldn't be a big deal to us now. It would be odd to hear of people getting to know one another before dating if we were used to being told that you are now in a relationship. Actually. Didn't a lot of old-time kings/princes get their spouse through forced marriage?

[Shigeru]

That's sort of happened twice, obviously over a couple of days. I can tell you, it definitely did not work out as I didn't know much about them, and the longest one lasted for a couple of months. Sooo in conclusion, I'll probably never do that again :P

[Achaman]

id feel less lonely

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xh_9QhRzJEs

[Honeybear]

It would be flattering, but they might not be your type? Plus isn't that a bit presumptuous of them to announce that you're theirs?

[Rootbaer]

There is more to a relationship than being cute.

What? People don't find horns, goat hooves, and eternal damnation cute?

[-Elysium-]

What? People don't find horns, goat hooves, and eternal damnation cute?

That's.. Impossible!

[Hiphop]

You can try to look on her/him as if you are old friends. Just be yourself, if you like her/him, and let her/him known! Do not try to do something rude when you are meet for the first time. I am experienced in this.