Bowling and going to a reasonable place in town to eat, good date.
Going to a club, and then just fooling around in town, Reasonable date (Depends if either get pissed)
1st date, Going to the movies - sitting in silence for roughly 2 hours, Not so good.
Chances are she/ he want's to get to know you better, and decide if a next date is warranted (1st dates are pretty good indicators)