Originally Posted by Varzik
Vixsin over at Life in Group 5 is very eloquent about this issue. Kudos to her.
Read the entire post, it's worth your time.
Note: censored word by me due to forum rules.
vixsin is a man btw
also that's only half the story. if you read some of his other posts he goes on to say that keeping up is very difficult and stressful compared to others.