The major problem you're having is that you're trying to treat "anime" as a genre.
It's not a genre, it's a medium.
There are a ridiculously large variety of styles and story types represented by the blanket term "anime". It's not exactly uncommon to enjoy one type of show and dislike another.
The first batch of shows you listed mostly fall under the shonen genre, which literally means "young person". They're action stories marketed for kids 10 and up generally.
The second batch falls under the heading of seinen, which is marketed towards young men generally 18-30.
So depending on your age and entertainment preferences, it's not surprising you enjoy the one and not the other.