So I was a bit confused recently. I am catching up on some Grey's Anatomy and in one of the episodes one of the doctors (female) ends up bruised with a black eye from her boyfriend, who fell hit his head and ended up with a brain hemorrhage. So he wakes up and the friend of the female doctor goes to talk with him. (he was going to call the police) and basically he explains that she was attacking him and what was he suppose to do. To which the reply was take it you don't hit women pretty much. Here is where I am more confused though because he ended up with a brain hemorrhage and nearly dead, and the message is still to take it?