There comes a time, when the well runs dry, a man just says "Fuck it." "I'll do it anyways."
When I was watching "30 Days with Morgan Spurlock" they had a Gay Switch-a-roo, and a gay man grabbed a straight mans ass. Then said, after being confronted, "WTF man, why are you in a Gay Bar, if you're straight?"
Both people have a point. Sure, just because I'm in a gay bar, even though I'm straight, doesn't mean I deserve to get my ass grabbed(Comparable to the woman getting the photo). Then at the same time, it's like "This is the day and age we live in."(The guy sending the photo)
Because let's be honest now, dating, marriage, coupling, living together, bang buddies, and all that jazz. All boils down to compatibilities. Sex, at least in my eyes, is a major issue. So he is being up front and eye-gougingly honest. Which as a man, I can respect. Yet, I totally face palm his actions.
Anyways, all that aside. His behavior has NOTHING to do with his mother. He is a full grown man. He makes his own choices. To mix his mother into the issue is bad form. It's like if I get into an argument with some random stranger, that happens to know my mom, and tells my mom? My mother would beat the shit out of you. Then laugh and have a beer with me. Over how fucking petty and childish a person would have to be, to go to someones mother, over a fucking naked picture.
I'm not arguing because they're male sounding.
I made a comment in which I referred to them as a man. Which is why Cybran replied saying they weren't, and why I then replied to explain why I had described them as male.
Really, is actually reading the thread that difficult?
He obviously did something wrong, but if she forwarded it to his mother, doesn't that mean she can get sued or something?
Why do you care? Because you aren't, 'the woman alone against all teh sexist males on mmoc"
the joke is EVERYONE here agrees they are both total assholes and neither is rite. But..... lol
Looking at the conversation the guy continued to be belligerent towards her until she bought up his mother. In those circumstances I do not blame her at all for contacting her. Had he shown any respect for anything else she'd said maybe she wouldn't have done so, but he made it pretty clear that that was the one ting that might actually work and get the message across.
According to the ToS of the app that she used though, she agreed to the possibility of getting nude pictures. That, however does not trump her inherent American rights.
Potential crimes committed by the guy:
Potential crimes commited by the girl:
Sexual Harassment (sending the picture to the mother)
Indecent Conduct (sending the picture to an unsolicited party (the mother))
Invasion of privacy (sending the picture to a third party without the consent of the sender)
Stalking (this one can be tough to prove but it can be a charge if the mother presses the situation)
Public Libel (The comments that she said against him is libel once it was made public)
Defamation of Character ( She posted the picture in an effort to shame him and make him seem bad) (although he is bad)
Now Windfury is going to come in and cry "SEE HOW ITS STACKED AGAINST THE VICTIM?" The funny thing is all of the crimes listed was associated with how she handled the situation, not as a direct result of the situation.
Oh it's another strawman, I see.
There are plenty of males on mmo champ I have respect for the opinions of, but there are also plenty of sexist assholes.
Your comments are reading like you've run out of things to say and are instead trying to nitpick without context in order to create a fight.
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REGARDLESS, bringing someones mother into the issue is bad form. You want feminism. Yet, this WOMAN, brought another person into her conflict. That wasn't present and has no accountability. Doesn't make sense.
Both people are childish and seem perfect for each other.
Obviously i am lying about this because you know, men lie, right? That's what we do, right?
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I think you are arguing to boost your post count.
Rationally, you don't have any information then what's presented, and Rationally, it's abnormal for people to just send Images of them selves nude to one another unless there is some massive confidence, or belief it's acceptable to do so.
The guy reads like hes a cocky 18 yearold highschool jock. It's clear in the words used, he's not as confidant or of the personality that just send nudes to a random person. Hes immature and horney.
He makes a very obvious try at recovering his ego after being shot down by making fun of her, which leans toward his immaturity, agian enforcing the fact this was not a thought out thing, this is something he thought he could get away with, as it was crashing down on him.
Smelling blood in the water our female tears him apart. Bullying, a bully? No, we really cant call it bullying or harassment, even. WHy? Because the situation this happened in is one where you expect, or should expect to see peoples dongs, people wanting to hook up, people dressed sexy, people with SEX On the mind. THere is a reason to expect this exact situation happening. We live and thrive on the internet, we sext eachother all day long. Couple that with being on a site for people looking for what only is going lead to sex, it's not unreasonable to expect some asshole is going to send you a cock shot. It's not far off in left feild.
It has nothing to do with rape culture. It does how ever have something to do with shaming that guy, and building up attention for this girl.
I also don't think the whole conversation is posted, but hey it's easy to paint a whole story with only a few polarizing panels of shit.
I was pointing out to someone that simply because i am male does not mean that i am immune to being raped and i learned the hard(lol) way that i was not. But there are people that believe that justice was dealt when i was sexually assaulted against my will at the age of 8.
Last edited by Ralgarog; 2013-06-14 at 09:07 AM.
I'm not exactly sure where you got the idea that I support victim blaming/shaming. You should work on your reading comprehension.
Feminism backbone is independence... then how can a full grown woman(citing feminism as cause), rely on another person to resolve a personal conflict? That is something a CHILD would do.... Again perfect for each other... even the dating site said so...