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[15:53] <PizzaSHARK> you have such a cute accent! ^_^
I am a man (get that out so we can actually see how views differ passed on gender)
"Don't be that guy" poster. That situation is taking advantage, and is rape.
"Don't be that girl" poster 1. Brings up an interesting debate. If a woman is drunk she can claim diminished responsibilities, therefore even if she was to consent it would be classed as rape. However of those situations how many men are drunk when they sleep with that woman...diminished responsibilities to not be able to decline sex. (I am NOT condoning drunkenly raping someone drunk who says no, but drunkenly sleeping with someone who is also drunk and wants sex is not rape)
"Don't be that girl" poster 2. Poster 1 does tie into this one.
The idea of "aah well only 1-2% of claims are false like every other crime" is a really disgusting attitude. Falsely arrested burglers, etc.picked up and let go because they are not the suspects can probably get back to their normal life easily, picked up as a suspect of a rape life is very easily likely to be over. mistaken identify may be clear, but if a woman pulls her claim it will still be "bet he did it anyway, the cops just dropped it".
Saying someone deserves to be raped because they engage in a socially acceptable and normal activity just because you don't agree with it is an entirely new level of stupid.
For the record, my avatar image has been "temporary" for years now.
And it -is- a gendered issue, -barely- any women rape in available statistics, so ofc it's going to be skewed against men.
OT; The first counter poster is BS; the second is fine actually.
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[QUOTE=Tiili;21721282]Or guys could not be that stupid to think that being drunk to the point you're not really aware of what's going on or unable to fend them off = Consent. It's not consent.
Well guys considering that to be sufficient for consent is another issue entirely. It basically boils down to the fact that both the woman and man are just the average, moron humans. One drinks and circumvents millions of years of evolution and the other takes advantage of a situation that if the woman didn't drink wouldn't even exist. This world would be a lot better if people didn't consume alcohol. It sure would make rape cases more clear cut when altered-states of mind are not involved.
If you drive under the influence, it is without question your fault. If you get drunk and have a one night stand, it is without question your fault.
Just because you have to go back to your boyfriend with your tail between your legs doesn't give you an excuse to pretend like you were raped. Don't listen to all the femi-nazi brainwashing.
Women bitch incessantly about wanting to be treated equally whilst operating on a myriad of double standards. I've gotten really drunk and slept with a fat girl, you don't see me crying rape over it.
Edit: To clarify, I've had a friend that was in this exact situation. If it weren't for video evidence of her making out with him the entire night and laughing and shit during (she basically gave him a bj in front of everybody), pretty sure he'd be in jail. Just isn't fucking right, y'know?
Here's a handy list if you're unsure about your own personal beliefs.
So according to that list... yep... every man is a rape supporter. At least straight men.
In short... "rape culture" is not a term to be taken seriously.