View Poll Results: What if your girlfriend lived with 4 guys. would you be fine with it?

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  1. #201
    Without sounding like a dick, there are 2 reasons why u dont have to worry:
    1. They are engineers
    2. She's an engineer

    She's doing a study that has a 1/10 woman/man ratio. Assuming shes in a frat house, the odds she has even 1 female roommate is like 4%.

  2. #202
    Quote Originally Posted by c2dholla619 View Post
    its not that i dont trust her its that i wouldnt trust 4 horny dudes. the majority of the females i have been with like a guy to be a man and use the balls he was born with while being understanding. i wouldnt mind her going to a party with multi dudes but living there is another story. why live with 4 horny dudes when she can live with me (one horny dude). ever watch the show new girl each one of the dudes there had thoughts of having sex with jess (1 girl living with 3 dude).

    we are nothing more then animals bro.
    So in your mind men are all just rapey time bombs? That given enough time, proximity and confined space to a female we will just rape them?
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    Quote Originally Posted by wolphe View Post
    just to show the bad side of this:
    My ex and I was in the same situation, I chose the trust her part and didn't think much of it.
    Today, shes my x, and she lives with one of thoose guys.

    But honestly, if she hooks up with one of them, shes not ment for you :P
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  4. #204
    Quote Originally Posted by Ashnazg View Post
    Reading the responses in this thread is hilarious.

    Do any of you live in a big city? In New York, apartment shares are a fact of life among young people. Good luck finding a completely unisex group of roommates.

    I lived with 1 financial analyst and two models when I first came to NY for a year. Nothing ever happened between us and my girlfriend wasn't jealous in the least. My girlfrield also lived with 2 males for a year and nothing happened between them either (that I know of, anyway).

    Its not a big deal if you're a modern thinker. If you're still stuck in last century, then I guess I can see how that could be an issue.
    Sweeping generalisation much? Nothing to do with 'modern thinking' as you so ineptly put it. Get of your high horse and realise not everyone is like you or your girlfriend, also realise that while you are not promiscuous others are. Having a fuck buddy / flat mate is normal for a lot of people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spaceape View Post
    Sweeping generalisation much? Nothing to do with 'modern thinking' as you so ineptly put it. Get of your high horse and realise not everyone is like you or your girlfriend, also realise that while you are not promiscuous others are. Having a fuck buddy / flat mate is normal for a lot of people.
    If your gf is promiscuous, it's not going to matter if she lives with 4 guys or just with you. So I'm not quite sure what you are getting at.

  6. #206
    Quote Originally Posted by Ombree View Post
    I'd be pissed tbh, those saying you should trust her probably never had a gf before. Even if you do trust her, its just non-sense to accept that.
    Wha??
    I don't dance when I go out. My girlfriend does. She dances with her girlfriends and guys all the time. It don't mean shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Casualty View Post
    If your gf is promiscuous, it's not going to matter if she lives with 4 guys or just with you. So I'm not quite sure what you are getting at.
    Exactly. If your woman is promiscuous, the fact that she's living with you just means it's more effort for her to hide the fact that she's getting dicked down by someone else. Hell, in that case you're better off with her living w/ guy roomies. At least then it makes for a much cleaner break when you catch her getting the fingercuff treatment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by spaceape View Post
    Sweeping generalisation much? Nothing to do with 'modern thinking' as you so ineptly put it. Get of your high horse and realise not everyone is like you or your girlfriend, also realise that while you are not promiscuous others are. Having a fuck buddy / flat mate is normal for a lot of people.
    1. Who the hell equals a fuckbuddy and a flatmate? They are not the same .
    2. using ur flatmate as a fuckbuddy is plain retarded and it will bite u in the ass (in de bad way)
    3. fk promiscuous people, grow up.

  9. #209
    Quote Originally Posted by Muzual View Post
    Then you should trust her enough to resist

    You could get to know those guys, that might alleviate your fears?
    This, all this trust bullshit is laughable. I agree you should trust her and not let it come between you, but on the other hand the "deal with it" attitude is stupid. You are jelous and you could like this guy suggested get to know some of the guys to cool the jelousy down.

    Nothing wrong with being jelous in a healthy way, tbh I'd find it odd if you were 100% ok with this.

  10. #210
    Quote Originally Posted by Zymonk View Post
    What if your girlfriend lived in an apartment with 4 guys. Would you be fine with that?

    Girlfriend studies to be an engineer and are currently living in an apartment with 4 guys and she thinks i´m silly cause i don´t much like it.
    I trust her, but i know what guys are like.
    Depends how she looks. Maybe post a pic.
    If she's hot and not fat, you could expect nightly orgies, no worries. She'll still be your girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ombree View Post
    I'd be pissed tbh, those saying you should trust her probably never had a gf before. Even if you do trust her, its just non-sense to accept that.
    If you feel that threatened by the situation, perhaps its your own manhood that should be questioned and not that of the ones you disagree with.
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  12. #212
    Quote Originally Posted by Zymonk View Post
    I do trust her. I am 100% sure she wont do anything she should not be doing. Still it feels very weird!
    I´m not worried she will do anything stupid. I´m worried the guys are assholes! putting up spycams in the shower and what not.. :P
    If you trusted her 100%, you wouldnt have made this thread. That said, imagine that you lived with 4 chicks...yeah thats right...haha!
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  13. #213
    Quote Originally Posted by Biged781 View Post
    What, like, rapists?



    Do you trust her? If so then what's the problem? What does their behavior have to do with anything? Have they actually acted like pigs or are you just generalizing? Are you insecure such that these guys hitting on her makes you feel like she's going to leave you? Well, that's your problem.
    i am a guy i now how guy. there have been too many cases in the past of these type of situation not going well. it would be insanely naive of me to say that nothing could possible go wrong. my motto is hope for the best yet prepare for the worst (yes im one of those crazy preppers). i have seen these situation turn bad and would prefer to prevent it. but if it does happen and goes how i dont want it then that may be destiny. just move on to the next fish.

    its easy to play the i will trust her card but it never that simple in reality, and there are many(if not the vast majority) girls who would want you to be against it just to show that you care and vise versa.

    it would be fine if its was just a trip or i was one of the 4 dudes then i wouldnt have a problem at all
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    Quote Originally Posted by c2dholla619 View Post
    my motto is hope for the best yet prepare for the worst (yes im one of those crazy preppers). i have seen these situation turn bad and would prefer to prevent it. but if it does happen and goes how i dont want it then that may be destiny. just move on to the next fish.

    its easy to play the i will trust her card but it never that simple in reality, and there are many(if not the vast majority) girls who would want you to be against it just to show that you care and vise versa.
    I'm a bit of a prepper myself and i agree that actually trusting someone is easier said than done but the prepper in me makes it easy to cut my losses and move on when something bad does happen. Personally, I'm at a point in my life where I'm too old to be playing these bullshit games of insecurity.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ulqiorra View Post
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  15. #215
    it seems that guys forget how they really think.. having a girl around all the time, will eventually make you sexually attracted to her, one way or another, face, body, w.e... even faster if there is no other to be had.

    as for women, while i cant say for sure, from what i've seen, they tend to become attracted to personality, car, way guys dress and stuff like that.. unless the guy is really hot at which point girls seem to forget themselves.

    sexual attraction towards people that you spend lots of time with is totally common, normal and while it should be avoided, not all people are able to stop themselves from messing around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Psiclonus View Post
    I'm a bit of a prepper myself and i agree that actually trusting someone is easier said than done but the prepper in me makes it easy to cut my losses and move on when something bad does happen. Personally, I'm at a point in my life where I'm too old to be playing these bullshit games of insecurity.
    Amen. Once I figured out that whether I was jealous and had (imo irrational) fears about being left or cheated on or was confident enough that I found someone I could trust completely didn't affect the outcome at all, the choice was pretty simple. One caused a headache, the other didn't.

  17. #217
    Quick, your girlfriend's birthday is coming up.

    Which necklace do you give her?

  18. #218
    Wow, this thread really went off-track.

    To clear some things out.
    We been together for 3 years.
    We live 450km/280miles apart cause she's studying and i pretty much need a job there to be able to move there. Working on it.
    She don't drink, nor will she ever.
    She did not know she would live with 4 guys (now 5 btw) and has no control over who moves in.
    She has not given me any reason to doubt her, quite the contrary.
    I trust her fully and i'm like 95% fine with her living with a bunch of guys.

    Someone stated before that they wouldn't like the guys to get an eyeful and i think thats the problem.
    Also, as someone earlier in this thread said. Shit is gray, not black or white!

    The thread did however serve it's purpose. I now know how many that would be fine with it and not. Thank you.

  19. #219
    I believe that real world isn't like all these porn movies and your girlfriend won't just walk naked in the apartment and give bjs to all her roommates.
    The main question is how sure you are that she loves you?
    To be honest, I wouldn't really mind my gf living with a bunch of guys, if she cheats on me I just dump her or throw her out of the window, make some surprise visits to check if everythings is ok .

    Remember that you are still young and if you don't trust her completely you should probably wait and find another girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wowaccounttom View Post
    it seems that guys forget how they really think.. having a girl around all the time, will eventually make you sexually attracted to her, one way or another, face, body, w.e... even faster if there is no other to be had.

    as for women, while i cant say for sure, from what i've seen, they tend to become attracted to personality, car, way guys dress and stuff like that.. unless the guy is really hot at which point girls seem to forget themselves.

    sexual attraction towards people that you spend lots of time with is totally common, normal and while it should be avoided, not all people are able to stop themselves from messing around.
    While I've had plenty of opportunities through my line of work to get something on the side, I (and all other men/women) can say "no". It really is that simple. And if that other person can't help themselves in that situation, they aren't going to be able to when they work as an engineer - a field that is virtually all men.

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