Originally Posted by
atsawin26
People often create mental constructs of the "type of person they will be".
However, this isn't always what's true about us, it's more what we've chosen and worked towards. People change as life goes on.
For example, my younger brother is very bright, he was always grades ahead of the other children in mathematics. He started college early, finished early, and was offered a very well-paying computer research job before he even had his degree.
And he is miserable. He's 28 now and realizing he made this construct of himself as a scientist and followed it fanatically through school, he put aside friendships, never dated, and now he realizes more than anything he wants to do something creative instead of just programming and crunching numbers all day. Any interest he has in science is in theoretical issues, and weird mathematical arcana rather than practical science. Beyond that he's realized he wants to write, wants to tell stories.
Sometimes the you you create isn't always the you that's under there.