GC's blather of "do you like more embers or do you think dmg is low" shows just how out of touch he is with the situation. I'm not sure if the rest of the team is that out of touch but they certainly are not kicking it up the ladder if they do.
Destro isn't even that great in pvp compared to any nuker or burst spec. Its gross negligence for any team to let the add cd's CB go off and you can basically ignore any of the non CD CB's since they hit for jack nothing. Its basically good at taking a beating and trying to stay alive via ember tap. Demo can burst more reliably (though a bit less) and has better mobility. Aff can both pressure or haunt + big dots for single target kill push.
Granted logic or math never matter to pvp qq'ers since they see the giant green dildo of doom hit them for a single large combat log entry but somehow fail to compute a shatter combo, 4x instant autocrat pyros w' a ton of periodic, oblit spam vs cloth, powershot>aimed proc>chimera, elelolwtfsham, etc.