Don't/10char.
Sugarlily, I love you. You're spot on as usual.
OP, there is nothing wrong with you that growing a spine would not fix.
If you don't want to meet her, don't meet her. Tell her to leave you alone and move on with your life.
Stop being manipulated and emotionally blackmailed, for crying out loud.
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Now, I haven't really been following OPs delightful threads that closely but I just saw this:
No fucking way.
How did you not learn any of these lessons earlier in life? I mean even if you only had one other girlfriend EVER something would have absorbed.
You got issues mang.
I know you won't listen, but don't meet up her. Ever. EVER. Don't take calls, don't take texts, block her on social media. Your job is not to make sure she can move on okay, she's responsible for that. Your job is to live your life in a happy healthy way, which unless you have some serious impairment to common sense, sounds like you haven't really done.
she sounds nice - can i have her number?