im bc i was in a guild that was run by 2 sisters and some of their friends, they would only take their officer team into raids they did with a other guild and left the rest of us to do bugger all, i just came from a raiding guild that fell apart and this was a ginormouse guild (over 200 accounts, it was more of a social guild), so basically they had like 50 people online every night
anyway, the gm always only took the officer team and their friends to this onther guilds. so after i leveled a few alts i desided i really wanted to go back to raiding and i liked this guild, they where nice people. the gm didnt want to raid with her guild because she didnt think they could do it, well i asked her if i could organise raids and when i did we slowly cleared content. we even went BT 25 man, that for a social guild with almost no raiding exp was pretty badass i thought.
in the guild i am in now, i used to be an officer, raidleader and core member of their raids, i had a pretty bad breakup with my ex (who was also an officer in that guild) and then i fell ill and couldnt raid anymore, so i got dropped in rank, we moved server (i followed), and now i havent been able to raid for a month so my gear is pretty crap still (ilvl 516)
but i will remain loyal as they have been my friends for 4 years, but i do wish to come back into their main raid team and clear content with them