Could they not send the family a letter saying something along the lines of:
"We've scheduled an abortion procedure for on October 12th at 9am, in accordance with our one child policy. If you are not present, then you will be apprehended and forced to undergo this procedure at a later date."
Is that asking too much?
Despite the massive economic growth China has experienced, much of it's gargantuan population continues to live miles under any poverty line imaginable. Economic burdens of multiple children cannot be handled by the average Chinese citizen and the states lacks the resources to adequately provide for its citizens.
Doing this is the single most humane thing the Chinese government can do for the good of its own citizens. Instead of trying to keep alive millions of starving, disease ridden children, with insane child mortality rates like in Africa, guaranteeing a never ending cycle of poverty, the chose to focus their resources on a manageable population level. Child mortality rate is very low, they provide increasing quality education to everyone, and invest in the future of their people, while they encourage contraception and population control.
In your world view of "sacrilege" vs a world view based on logic which is better.
This.
or this
There obviously need to be a birth control, but hell, that's just insane.
It's a bit like health laws in the context of there being government spending on it - if there's no government spending, you have every right to do as you please and tell me to fuck off, that it's none of my business. As soon as you tell me that I have to pay for other people's bad choices, I think I have a reason to be interested in legislating those choices.
I don't know why you think a forced abortion is worse than taking away everything someone has or jailing them.
I have a hard time believing any 'news' that comes out of China, especially news in the 'human interest' section.
I mean: We've had Darkvision Boy, One-meter Rat (tall story, but acceptable until they stated that butchering the animal destroyed two knives), and gods know how many other bollocks stories.