She was in the Army and was murdered by her boyfriend, who was also in the Army. Her twin sister (alive) has an identical headstone in the plot next to this one, and she is in the Navy.Was the child a sergeant in some military force?
She was in the Army and was murdered by her boyfriend, who was also in the Army. Her twin sister (alive) has an identical headstone in the plot next to this one, and she is in the Navy.Was the child a sergeant in some military force?
So a bunch of land where dead people are buried has to stay the same style? Who's going to care? The dead buried there? And if anyone living has a problem with the memorial, they have some real issues. I can just imagine some prick walking in and going "I don't want to see Sponge Bob while I walk to my dead relative's grave!" It's just about as bad as someone walking past your house and not liking the color of it and demanding you change it."We've decided that they aren't appropriate for our historic cemetery and they can't be displayed here,"
They removed the best tombstone they had on their graveyard. Morons.
"If you want to control people, if you want to feed them a pack of lies and dominate them, keep them ignorant. For me, literacy means freedom." - LaVar Burton.
Lets be honest, it's a 7 foot Spongebob in a Cemetery... that's pretty fucking weird don't you think?
The man who passes the sentence should swing the sword.
When I visited the town of my mother's birth, and we went to the cemetery where a lot of my ancestors are buried, we encountered this:
That's in Caldwell, TX.
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
Whhhhhhoooooo lives in a coffin under the ground?
You're getting exactly what you deserve.
No, they were notified the very next day after it was put up that it had to be taken down.
OP I agree, I don't think its a appropriate headstone, maybe a Spongebob small pic in the corner, but a 7 foot cartoon character and 2 more smaller ones next to it? Hell No.
They are offering to pay, sensible family members will take it and do whats right.
I don't think there's any right answer. I can see both sides of the argument. As the family, of course I would want the gravestone to remain. But as anyone else, yea I'd be pissed there's a spongebob next to Grandpa Joe's grave. Especially considering the nature of that particular cemetary. I think a compromise should be found.
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"If you want to control people, if you want to feed them a pack of lies and dominate them, keep them ignorant. For me, literacy means freedom." - LaVar Burton.
It's an appeal to emotion in the end.
I love the Idea of a 7 foot spongebob because it's still an appeal to emotion but it conflicts with the EXPECTED emotion you should have. It's great, gaudy, irreverant... Says to me this is the kind of person I would of liked to of known irl, because who the hell would use that as the lasting testament to them being alive? Had to of been a pretty fun person, a person who lived.
"If you want to control people, if you want to feed them a pack of lies and dominate them, keep them ignorant. For me, literacy means freedom." - LaVar Burton.
Perfectly reasonable in my view. If i'm going to visit someones grave, a loved one of mine, I don't want that staring at me.
Well I don't think she'll mind.