No offense, but I'm not sure I've ever felt less sorry for someone's problems. Your problem is literally that your girlfriend wants you to dominate her. That's a win win if I've ever heard one.
No offense, but I'm not sure I've ever felt less sorry for someone's problems. Your problem is literally that your girlfriend wants you to dominate her. That's a win win if I've ever heard one.
smash her anally
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Last edited by Endus; 2013-10-23 at 01:26 PM.
I'm amazed by your conclusive evidence that our knowledge of the human brain and trauma it can receive is non existant. Probably exactly the same as every other science which is written in you know .. books.
Good for you that you would dump her without a thought. It's quite clear the OP loves her, a good relationship is something you have to work for. We give him ideas to fix THIS relationship. If it works, he's a happy man, if he doesn't he can still go fishing a new lovebird.
Last edited by Nerph-; 2013-10-23 at 10:11 AM.
Why join the navy when you can be a pirate
A new chick with less problems/drama is what you need. Just let her go.
Yeah, see you in Church on Sunday I presume. Yelling BLABLABLABLABLABLABLABLA with your fingers in your ears really isn't going to help you.
Do ignore the daily experiments and foundings in the scientific community (including psychology), because YOU think it's hogwash.
I could well be wrong but I think most people (not just chicks) have problems/drama, and most people spend a lot of thought trying to hide it when getting to know new people. Because otherwise they have to deal with statements like the above. As a result, I suspect its fairly common, when you're in a "serious" relationship that after a while, people feel comfortable or loved enough to share these problems. In some of those cases people decide they want to work it out, rather than letting it go.
Anyway I'm rambling now, but my point is the search for a person with no problems/drama might take longer than just helping fix the relationship you're in.
Updating my signature from my WoD characters.
Yikes.
Probably better than you, probably also a casual these days. Go on, keep being elitist.
Why join the navy when you can be a pirate
If he loves her, I am amazed so many advice him to leave her. Is love not worth fighting for anymore? Not all men or women value sexual intimacy as the most important thing in a relationship.
I think the OP was wise to consult a psycologist, maybe talking this through will help, aand also, if the partner is not oposed to it, couples therapy would work.
It's terrifying to see people go on about the most private things in their life on the internet. It's so out of touch with everything and really sick.
I imagine that because of her sexual assault and resulting problems that you've been treating her like she's a delicate glass vase that would shatter if you so much as looked at her too hard. Because of this, the way you treat her sexually becomes a constant reminder of what must have been a horrible experience for her.
Essentially, she's feeling that you see her as broken, at least that's what I got from the tone of your post.
For the record, the best thing for you to do is to move on and get more experience with women.
Your relationship is finished she when she says " she is not attracted to you" it means she is already having sex with better looking people and has moved on
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news
(i claim this from experience)
Last edited by Silhouette of Seraphim; 2013-10-23 at 11:14 AM.
They can dynamite Devil Reef, but that will bring no relief, Y'ha-nthlei is deeper than they know.
In my experience life is just to short for messed up women. End it gracefully and leave would be my advice.