Girl I'm in a relationship with hangs out with other guys often. We rarely hang out. Like, the only time we actually hang out is when we do things we've always done together (ie watch a TV show). We talk all the time though. She texts me when she wakes up, when she's at work. But it ends there. We Haven't been intimate for a while (and it sucks cause we used to do it frequently) I know her schedule pretty much, and she has guy friends she always hangs out with.
This is a long distant relationship, but I used to see her every weekend. We don't watch movies together, we don't play games together much anymore. Its pretty much all texting, and she tells me she loves me, but it doesn't feel like it.
Ive confronted her twice about this. The first time she told me that she's sorry, but in her last relationship she completely ignored her friends cause of her boyfriend and she doesn't want to do that again. I told her that I don't want to keep her from them, I want to meet them. The second time, I basically said that we never hang out. we just text or talk, and that she hangs out with a specific guy all the time and it makes me feel pretty much ignored. That it doesn't feel like were even together anymore, and she called crying thinking I hate her, saying she's sorry,and that she talks to me more than any of her friends. Then told me someone was calling her a whore (it was her ex) and that's why she's been distant.
But then next day, low and behold, she's hanging out with this guy again, and ignoring me to a point. I love this girl. I can see us geting married. But I don't want to kid myself and end up getting hurt in the long run
Am I wasting my time here? Is this relqtionship salvageable? Advice thoroughly appreciated.