Should I give it a second chance.

[THE Bigzoman]

Hello there!

Forums are kind of boring. So i'll start a relationship thread to hear opinions about a current even in my life.

Long Story short:

1. I meet girl with kid. We talk for awhile, treading between friends and something a bit more.

2. Hey BD gets out of prision and she disappears (went back to him obviously)

3. And now shes back and we're essentially picking it back up. Should I give it another shot or no?

[Åmbulance]

Can you get past the fact that she left you for him, and is there a chance she will go back?

[Deleted]

The fact that she had a kid and that kid's dad was in jail should've been a no-no from the start. Don't do it.

[Blueobelisk]

I wouldn't. Be in that situation.

[Nemesiz]

What's does "BD" stand for?

Imo. don't bother, sounds like she still have feelings for her "BD".

[Aeluron Lightsong]

Based on the information you have given us. The odds are against you and this girl doesn't really know what she wants. That also doesn't spell good for the child either. I wouldn't touch that with a 5 ft pole.

[Toby451]

What's does "BD" stand for?

Imo. don't bother, sounds like she still have feelings for her "BD".

From the context im going to assume it means baby daddy.

[Llunai]

Absolutely not.

But, do you seriously have to ask? If you honestly don't already realize how awful of an idea this is, there probably isn't any hope for you. Maybe you'll get to be BD#2.

[Crissi]

A girl that acts like a ping pong ball is a girl to stay away from. Saw it happen to a friend of mine and I wanted to kill that *insert bad words for women here*

[Ossandran]

Danny you're a young man, DON'T DO IT

[THE Bigzoman]

Of course theres an issue of trust. But people can change right?

I'm thinking I will, but will do so with caution and no optimism.

[Deleted]

Of course theres an issue of trust. But people can change right?

I'm thinking I will, but will do so with caution and no optimism.

How old are you, and how old is she+kid?

[Blueobelisk]

It doesn't really sound like you were going to change your mind no matter what got posted here.

[ro9ue]

Run bro.


Run.

[Kalis]

Go for it, what can possibly go wrong?


Apart from everything, from the sounds of it.

[Åmbulance]

Of course theres an issue of trust. But people can change right?

I'm thinking I will, but will do so with caution and no optimism.

Just be cautious with your emotions broheim. As soon as shit seems different, back off.

[THE Bigzoman]

How old are you, and how old is she+kid?

Both in the 20s.

Is it bad if I forgot the kids age?

[Megalithic]

Do you know why she came back? Was it because she realized she shouldn't be with him after all, or did he just go back to jail?

[Kalis]

Both in the 20s.

Is it bad if I forgot the kids age?

1. Marry her, and get her to change her surname.

2. Move, and get her not to tell the ex where she is living.

3. Put the kid up for adoption.


I hope this helps.

[THE Bigzoman]

Do you know why she came back? Was it because she realized she shouldn't be with him after all, or did he just go back to jail?

According to her, the former.