What do you mean! :P
Also, it's a little more complicated than distance and probably shouldn't happen, although the chemistry is off the charts. For one, he's good friends w/my roommate's boyfriend; two, he finished his phd recently, but is likely doing post-doc work so he may or may not be moving/staying in the area for that; three, he views our house as kindof a sanctuary and I would hate to mess that up for him; four, he might be moving in for a few months until he has employment or a research opportunity set up >.< Fooling around w/potential roommate = bad...
Anyway, I need to go out and date and I'm definitely not putting all my eggs into one basket. I'm not sure what I should do to meet people, though...I am really not a fan of online dating, and I'm done w/college and grad school so my world feels a little small lately. Making friends/other interpersonal connections as a grown-up is definitely tougher than when I was in college or high school. >.<
Even after saying this, I still have my fingers crossed for this guy, despite my better judgement.