1) There's nothing substantial to say that Yogg-saron "fed" upon death, that's speculation based in nothing.
2) R'khem was chained by the Ymirjar that the Lich King had told to mine, he came up to find what the disturbance was. He doesn't even "wreak havoc" on the scourge, as you put it. He just runs away after you release him.
3) The scourge was indirectly involved for the releasing of the Faceless Ones.