Hello,
Mmo-champion users
I have been dating this girl now for a few months we had been friends about 8 months or so .Everything is going great she tells me she loves me, wants to be with me, we talk everyday etc, But there's one slight problem there's one dude she known about 5 years now she tells me he's like her gay best friend and he's just a gossip, but this dude is always trying to text her, he'll never chill with her in college or go out with her to places outside of school. But he always trying to text her up.
Here the twist though one of my good friends who's his close mate told me he had a crush on her about 2 years into their friendship but he never actually told her. Everything continued the same ended up In college became her good mate we talked everyday, went in kissed her then asked her out she was like yes I was her first boyfriend etc. Now I just think from my point of view this dude still like her but isn't saying anything because a few months back when we were just friends and we were out just me and her, The guy ofc didn't know about it she didn't like telling her friends her business she never really does but she always told me everything he was sending messages every min like where are you and this guy was at his best friends party, yet he was just texting her like hurry up I am bored. Now this annoyed me this dude at his best friends party he asking where she is. My GF told me later on that she was told that he was all depressed when she wasn't there by another friend at the party and even when I asked her out girls who were just mates with this dude were asking what the other gay bestfriend thought.
Now my GF never knew this guy liked her (I didn't want to cause any friction in their friendship just wanted he to know) so I told her so she knew I didn't want to be played along if she liked him she would of left me simple. When I told her she was In shock she was like you sure it's him you sure and was like maybe it's someone else I was like no it's him and she said it didn't change anything between us and she still loved me she ofc told me this changed nothing between him and her gay best mate which I was like yeah that's fine. But this dude when I went out with her didn't speak to my GF because he said he was in shock, and he was telling her are you sure about what you're doing? it means he will kiss you etc? and be your bf? my GF ofc was like whatever I know. Even a few weeks back she was asking this guy for a Christmas gift advice he was like whatever he's gotten what's he wanted already you what else he want. But this dude he always try texting my girl and although we talk all the time until early morning and I am the last person she talks to this cat always talking to her too even until 3:00am, should I be worried about this guy? or Am I just worrying too much and they'll just be friends and it won't affect my relationship with her? ps... all her other mates gave her the "Approval" of going out with me and were really happy except this dude.
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From,
San Jose, Cali