Hey guys, I have an issue with my current standing in life. I feel like all of my issues throughout my final years of being a teenager have kind of stayed with me no matter what I do and I can't escape them. Went to jail when I was 16 (twice) due to my mother and I having physical altercations... The worst part is, it was her starting them and living down in the grand ol' South (no really I hate this place and I've lived in a lot of places) police didn't believe anything I said and well I was sick of her shit of her beating me and hit back and apparently she bruises easily.
Anyways, everything after going to jail has just been different, I lost a lot of my diligence in high school (I was at a 3.75 GPA unweighted before jail) and just didn't care anymore. Life just seemed different, it seemed against me, whether it was or not I viewed it that particular way. Joining the National Guard and well of course after I thought my past was the past, it comes back to haunt me and now I have to wait months on end for this suitability review to come back, to my advantage at least all of my charges were dropped so it will pass (I've talked to numerous people about it and they all say it will) but it's going to take months to get back (possibly 6).
I'm joining the Guard for the college benefits as I told my parents, (did I mention my dad was gone for 4 years of my high school overseas making up the money we owed in debt?) who are in slightly better financial standing due to my mother becoming a relatively successful real estate agent and my dad's a contractor, that I didn't want them to pay a dime for college. I feel like I'm stuck because even if everything came back, I'm doing this awful 5pm-12am job that I hate and I haven't had success finding a job elsewhere. Everything is torture, it's just a consistent mental game, I'm lazy in certain parts of my life because I can't cope with my issues so I hide it by being lazy.
What do I do? Do I do what my uncle did and just leave everything behind and become an outfitter in the bloody Yukon of all places? I mean he was gone for 20 years no phone calls or anything yet that idea (or something like it) is starting to sound fantastic once I have the money saved up for a flight somewhere. A new life is what I desire, a bit of adventure too would be nice, I'm so sick of being stuck here, this place symbolizes my greatest failures and I can't stand it. I want to go to college but what if I can't muster up the ability to get straight A's? I've been changing slowly but what's really been killing me is that I call in sick for work because I just can't stand the dreadful job and if I were to leave that job I'd have no money (biggest issue) and my parents would nag me.
Now with all that said, I love my family, I'd miss every single one of them but my god I'm crying to myself at night because I don't know where to go, which direction in life I should take, it's all... Terrifying. I can't be stuck here forever and I can't live here forever. If I were to just vanish without saying anything to my family, they'd be distraught, in their eyes it would be selfish but it's what I want. I want a new life.