Short version: Been dating a girl for 3 years this november. Lately she has been really busy with school (she always has been really into school) and she works full time. She is very independent and that is one of the many traits I have grown to love about her. Idk lately (past like weekish?) I have been getting this gut feeling that she is...idk about cheating...but yeah I guess we can go with that. I have done a lot for her and she has done a lot for me and we both are in love with each other(can tell by looking in her eyes). Lately she has been really busy, extra busy, with school and work. Please someone just tell me I am being overdramatic and I just need to take a step back.
I have also been getting into this semi depressed state. I haven't had the best of luck with jobs recently (I am young and some of the mistakes I made in the past ended up biting me in the ass a couple years later)but I just found a great job that can get my the experience I desire to further my (future) career. I feel like this is why I am overthinking things. And when I overthink and get depressed, just like many, I think of the worst possible outcome to everything.
Maybe I just needed to vent a bit, I feel a bit better already. But for a conversation piece...has anyone else had those weird gut feelings that just turn out to be you overthinking things. Or have the turned out to be true?
EDIT- Thank you all for your posts. They aided in me from getting my mind back down to earth. I just talked with her and I didn't directly ask her but I kind of did a sneaky way of asking her(she didn't realize what i was doing thank god). She is just really busy and my feelings got to me and I feel like a jackass now for even thinking things like this. Do i expect us to last forever? no we are both young but I do want to enjoy every moment I have with her and if it lasts forever and our love carries us through the rest of our lives then that would be amazing too. I think i just have to learn to handle things when I am getting down in the dumps. I tend to bottle it all up and let it go ALL at once. This turns into anger, jumping to conclusions, thinking the worst and so on and it definitely isn't a good thing to do so I am going to start working on my emotions more.
tl;dr because I don't know the attention spam of some readers here - I was getting depressed about other things, I was overthinking and I thought the worst. I am working to change myself now as my life is slowly getting better with landing a new job.
/thread but continue to share your stories, gives me something to do