Originally Posted by
Shiift
What's friendship all about?
I have this "friend" i've known like forever. We went to the same school, played at the same team, worked at the same place, etc. For a few months now he's become occupied with starting his own buisiniess, he got a new girlfriend, getting his college degree, etc. He doesnt call, nor do i call him, we rarely Whatsapp eachother. Last time i've seen him was December. This isnt rlly the first time we havnt seen eachother in a long while, and we often go about the "we need to hang out again soon" correspondence on whatever. When we do hang out, its like weve seen eachother the day before that and we got shitloads to talk about.
But doesnt friendship require you to "make time" for one another? I'm pretty sure he can fit 1.5h of free time in that 6 months of which we havnt seen eachother. I understand starting a buisiness takes alot of effort and time, and boy, girlfriends do to. But cmon. Is 1.5h in 5-6 months that much to ask for? Somewhere i feel he just CBA to make the time anymore and weve grown apart.
What are your views on this? Anyone ever experienced something like this? Its not like im gonna crawl up a social bubble and die, I have enough people to hang out with, but this is a childhood friend.