Wow I had no idea this would get this many replies. Thank you everyone for the advice, I feel a lot of it is very good. I guess I was a little vague with the info... My wife plays wow with me and we have been married four years so I by no means neglect her (lol at the comment about Clara from the guild). My full time job is an extremely well paid mechanical engineering co-op for the summer between my senior year and my first year of grad school (so I will have two more years to enjoy a semi-free schedule). My wife and myself are living with my father in law for the summer while I work to be closer, which is why it is so easy for him to rope me into conversations.
I think cutting down on my sleep a bit may be a good idea in the long run, I have just always been a wussy and waking up in the morning is the hardest part of my day. (That's why I budgeted 1.5 hours for it, hitting the snooze button once or twice, showering, eating breakfast, I stagger around a while trying to make sure I don't forget anything in the mornings while my brain wakes up.)
I think that quitting wow is probably the most likely option in the long run. My wife is pretty big into horses, and I am going to focus on controls/robotics in grad school so hopefully my inner nerd can be satisfied at work and I can go riding with her and what not a bit more once I get home from work. I've been depressed about this for a few weeks as silly as that sounds but seeing all of you who have gone through the same thing has really helped.
It depends. Some people, like Donald Trump, claim that 3-4 hours a day for them is enough. I personally feel really great only after 8.5 hrs: I can make it in busy time with about 6.5 hours a day and not feel especially off, but then I need 1-2 days of 10 hours a day to catch up and recover. I know a girl who sleeps 10 hours a day: if she sleeps less than 9, she cannot think straight throughout the day. It varies greatly from person to person.