9 moths ago I've lent a friend money for his rent. A smaller 3 digit sum.
So far the only thing I got was a "of course I'm going to pay back, but I just don't have it now". Meanwhile, he spends money on/with his gf, travels, gambles and even opened his own "company".
Multiple tries to offer him payback in rates failed. Now he's ignoring me on FB and didn't reply to my messages for 2 months. I acknowledge our friendship is over, but that still doesn't mean I don't want my money back. Especially because we run into each other at university or at other people's places. Shit's getting beyond awkward.
All I can do is remind him over and over again but that won't help anymore I'm afraid. I also can't buy myself anything if I break his legs, so that's off the table as well.
Taking legal steps sounds ridiculous for such a small amount of money...
Have you guys been through such a situation before?