My son and his girlfriend have been together for many years and have lived with each other for quite some time. They have a great relationship, and although it's not a huge issue that has caused a lot of strife part of me thinks it should be discussed between them more.
He suggested getting a prenuptial agreement, just because that is common advice. She stated that she wouldn't want to marry someone who wanted a prenuptial agreement because that means the person isn't completely devoted and is already preparing for the worst. She thinks if you don't see yourself spending the rest of your life with the person without doubt why bother getting married.
I understand her line of reasoning completely but at the same time I'm conflicted. This wasn't a big argument or anything and they are still very happy together, and my son is completely ready to marry her without a prenuptial agreement regardless.
What do you think of prenuptial agreements?