What should I wear to this wedding?? It says "formal attire" but I'm not sure...

[glo]

Wear dress pants and a white dress shirt, keep the suit jacket in the car. I've never been to a wedding where every male was wearing a suit jacket.

[Shuji V2]

Not really. I hate wearing penguin suits as they are extremely uncomfortable.

It's not about you, it's not your wedding so suck it up.

Personally I would be pissed if someone couldn't go through the trouble to dress up formally in a suit for just a few hours to assist in making it the most memorable day ever. It's a small gesture but it contributes.

Just don't wear khakis. Don't be that dick who couldn't bother to look nice while the rest does.

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How is these even open for discussion?

Wear a suit, put up and shut up. If you can't manage being warm for a few hours, don't go. It's better than turning up to a formal event looking like Bear Grylls.

[Stormspellz]

wedding + formal attire = suit

simply khakies is not formal of any kind

[Stormdash]

Shirt and tie or go home, really. The thing says formal, that pretty much demands business appropriate. When in doubt, ask whoever the RSVP is.

[Tastyfish]

Wear suit (jacket+pants) + tie
Take off suit jacket when the groome does it.

Rather overdress than underdress.

If you're still unsure call you're friend. You are friends after all.

Agreed and go with a bowtie if you can swing it. They are more, "in" for those events rite now.

[Bathory]

Lol khakis at a wedding? NO. It's a wedding, not a god damn golf game. Dress pants, dress shirt, nice shoes, nice tie. And be done with it. You don't need a jacket, but if you want to look fancy wear a vest. Jackets can tie everything together, but a vest is substantial on its own.

Also don't rsvp if you can't be bothered to show up like someone who knows to be a big boy.

[DeleteThisUser]

Light dress pants and shirt. Clip-on tie and comfortable dress shoes. You don't have to overdo it so you're sweating, especially if you're not in the actual ceremony. If your khakis are appropriate for the wedding, then I'm sure it would be okay. You will be sitting down most of the time anyway.

[Xargoth6634]

Clip-on tie

This is a joke, right? In what world is a clip-on tie considered appropriate attire for anything?

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This is a joke, right? In what world is a clip-on tie considered appropriate attire for anything?

appropriate for small children so they don't strangle themselves on a tie by accident