Originally Posted by
Erin
Sorry, that wasn't what I was trying to say.
I mean to say, whatever it is that's causing guys to not seek help, whether it's a "masculinity under threat" issue or a "don't know the help exists" or whatever it is, places that provide that help need to do WHATEVER IT TAKES, no matter how ridiculous it may seem, to get guys to seek the help they need. I don't claim to know why guys won't seek help while women do, I'm not a mental health professional, but it needs to be figured out and solved.
Yes it can help a lot for people around to notice, but sometimes they don't. Sometimes there arn't any people around, and this is what's causing the problem. Also, while other people might notice signs, if they are a keen observer or have some knowledge on the issue, most people are not mental health professionals and don't know what to look for, or are stuck with a lot of misunderstanding and stereotypes about mental health being not a real problem, or a woman's problem or something you just need to get over. This is obviously a big problem, and needs to be fixed, but it's not always possible to rely on others to notice and get you the help you need, we have to create an environment where men are willing and comfortable to seek help, and are even encouraged to do so, even when others don't notice there is anything wrong.