ABOUT ME:
- I am 25 years old and in graduate school.
- I have a job and a wife, leaving me with ~5-7 hours/day free time.
- My work/class schedule varies, so raiding is possible but hard.
- I think PVP in MMORPG's will never be anywhere near balanced. My favorite PVP games are League and Smash Bros.
- I believe games were meant for fun, not for "getting the next shiny." That doesn't mean I dislike goal-setting and fulfillment (I got my Shado-pan hat and Serpent Riding in MoP no problem.)
- I genuinely think female Pandaren are sexually attractive and I'm not (usually?!) a furry. Come at me.
I've tried: WoW (constant from Vanilla-Cata), Neverwinter, DCUO, Guild Wars 2, TERA, RIFT, Wildstar, and several more.
My gaming personality: I'm fairly social, although as I get older I find that my teammates seem to be coming off younger to me. I try not to discriminate, but when a 13 year old shows up in my raid, my eyes roll every time. I despise logging in and "having nothing to do." My addiction-like habit of booting up WoW whenever I sit down has been broken, and I don't jump in circles in Org/Shatt/Dal any more. If I catch myself doing that, I log off.
I like action-based combat systems, but I don't mind WoW's or GW2's tab-targeting, either. They're well made and feel good. I refuse to play a spreadsheet or crunch numbers; I'll look at guides to figure out appropriate builds/gear/etc., but I'm not doing math in my spare time! I can grind, but it has to be fun-ish or short-ish.
The most important factor for me is --- and Totalbiscuit would hate me for this --- I need something with "reachability factor." Yes, WoW used to make content for the "top 10% of players" or whatever. Wildstar claims to still be doing that. That's great and all, but not for me. Folks hated the nerfs to Naxx and Lich King, I know, but without them I never would have got to see that content. And I loved that content! I want to see things, be involved in the story, feel useful and powerful. Oh, and my #1 attraction is good game design as evidenced in interesting abilities/kits.
So what do you think guys? Main choices on the table for me right now are WoW, Wildstar, GW2, and DCUO. Should I play one of those? A different MMO? Or, from what I've described here, are MMORPG's simply not for me anymore?