Okay so I just played against someone and after the game he/she added me, had the exact same name as them so I only assume it was the same person.
Anyways I did not accept cause I did not want to read any possible rage rambling. But I want to know how did they add me without actually having my battletag number? On the screen all we get is the name, but we don't see the four digits needed, or am I missing out on something here?