How often do you have a bad day?

[schwarzkopf]

There are good days ??

There are bad days, there are neutral days and there are deluded days. But no - there are no good days.

[Deleted]

A few days a month at most. But then again there are very few things that can ruin my mood and they're mostly related to looking in a mirror and not liking what I see for one reason or another (bad hair days:P).

[Spraxle]

I have a 'bad day' maybe 6-7 days a week. I rarely have good days, and at best that 0-1 day if it comes up is just a mediocre day.

People can say 'oh boo hoo first world problems' and such, but here is the fact: you are not living the life of someone else so you can not discredit your own feelings 'because someone has it worse.'

So why do I have so many bad days? I'm lonely, have a shit job, would rather be dead then alive but I'm to big a pussy to off myself, some mental issues, other issues stemming from abuses I suffered during my teenage years, and I'm sure other stuff. What I'm trying to say is I don't get to have good days. Whenever I try to have one I get kicked in the balls by life.

Edit: Forgot! I'm 29 and Male. Though I suffer from a 'mental condition' that is untreatable for me. It is also hard to diagnose since no test can say if it's real or not. Eh why not say it. I suffer from Gender Dysphoria, and the 'cure' for that is cut off to me for a number of reasons (many from what I mentioned above about abuses).

[drwelfare]

Well my life sucks so its always bad in a way.

Sometimes things like painful headaches, have to spend 4 hours driving, or other factors like weather make it worse.

[schwarzkopf]

Whenever I try to have one I get kicked in the balls by life.

Exactly.

One has to remember life is a game, your opponent is the universe. It is a rare thing indeed to win that battle - but those people that do assume it is by sheer force of will, the egotistical delusion of self important.

For me - the universe won the battle, I haven't given up - I have just run out of options for happiness.

[dacoolist]

24/7/365!!! <3
No really, about 1/day a month, or 1-3 days every few months is what I chose.

- Happy as can be

[MaximusPM]

Daily.

My life is kinda in ruins right now.

[Deleted]

I think it depends on what you count as a bad day. My health isn't good right now and I have to have surgery and hospital treatment frequently, including invasive, embarrassing procedures and I still wouldn't go around saying it was a bad day. It was just a day. Wasn't the best of days, but hey, life can always get worse. I would only say I've had 2 truly bad days in the last few years, and both of those days were the day that someone close to me died. That is my idea of a bad day.

[Spraxle]

Exactly.

One has to remember life is a game, your opponent is the universe. It is a rare thing indeed to win that battle - but those people that do assume it is by sheer force of will, the egotistical delusion of self important.

For me - the universe won the battle, I haven't given up - I have just run out of options for happiness.

Ah you get me!

[schwarzkopf]

That is my idea of a bad day.

My idea of a bad day is continuous boredom, absolute and literal isolation - and complete absence of challenge or contact with human beings.

In addition - knowing that each day from now until I die will be worse than the day before, and that in 5-7 years I will have to kill myself for financial reasons.

That is - not only is it bad now, but there is no hope for it ever getting better.

[Mayhem]

i sometimes have two or three bad days daily...

[Deleted]

Mostly every day, fuck illnesses.

[Xanjori]

Depends! Over the past few months Ive had a lot of bad days. Normally I very rarely have bad days, I don't get too depressed generally and am able to keep a positive outlook most of the time.

[Djuntas]

Had that way to often since I moved out...

[Vayshan]

I'd say about 1 day every 2 weeks or so. I do my best to stay centered and zen as much as I can, but sometimes the slightest thing just sets me off. Someone else who's moody and decides to let me know first hand, someone making a stupid or illogical decision which affects me or my schedule getting wrecked because of circumstances.

[schwarzkopf]

Where do you live?! Auschwitz??

Not that good unfortunately. Put it this way - people in solitary confinement have better contact with people than I do (literally).

I cant imagine a place where you have to die to be free of medical bills.

OH - I just wont be able to afford to live that's all... my medical bills are zero, because I'm untreatable.

[Deleted]

hm once or twice a week maybe, but it usually quickly stops being a bad day once I go to the gym

[Revi]

Wow, 5+ days is actually winning :/

[Adam Jensen]

About once a week, usually, because I work at the airlines, it's around Thursday or Friday when my patience runs out. Or its that day that the last RON decides to arrive at 3AM instead of 11PM.

[Deleted]

9-12 days a week