Only Fat Women are Fat.

[AeneasBK]

Not for his physical attractiveness, which is the point here.

No it isn't.

[Deleted]

I do not agree at all. I would say that both get the same shit. Wich is so wrong. Noone should be judged about how they look.

Why not? Being fat is a clear sign of bad living habits. It's a choice, and it's totally fine to judge people based on their choices. Being fat is similar to someone smoking, drinking or doing drugs. It's a bad choice and should be judged in order to stimulate a healthy living.

[Felya]

Cougar does not hold the connotation of fat

It's not a barrier either...

[Phlegethon]

Appearance is a bigger part of attraction for men than women, we place more value on it. Men are generally attracted to women, so women are judged more for their appearance than men.

And men are judged more for their achievements than women. I'd say when it comes to broad social acceptance, women actually have it easier.

Well if that's not the biggest load of BS I read all day...
Same goes for the topic OP.
Either two mangina's or some feminazi's on a roll

In short: no.

[Velaniz]

No it isn't.

It was the point the person he was replying to was making. Chubbier women have their own niche to thrive in (bbw, pawgs, etc). This is hardly true for chubbier men.

[Deleted]

Only Fat Women are Fat.

This goes by definition. If they were slim, they wouldn't be fat.

Only Slim Women are Slim.

Only Green Trees are Green.

No kidding, Sherlock.

[Lady Dragonheart]

If a fat man is rich and charismatic he will still be very desirable though, that's not true for women.

How so?
Being "charismatic" and "rich" are notions that would slew in a lot of attention to a woman, regardless if she's fat or not.

[Tyrgannus]

This goes by definition. If they were slim, they wouldn't be fat.




No kidding, Sherlock.

Well, it isn't a true tautology. Fat women are fat is a true tautology. ONLY fat women are fat implies that other things aren't fat. That is what OP was stating

[Mermaid]

I'll have to agree with the OP.

For example when I watch a Youtube video where the male host happens to be fat, I notice there won't be very many comments about his weight.
The opposite is true from what I've seen when it comes to fat female hosts that over half of the comments will be about her appearance and not about what she's saying.

[cncrules45]

You disagree that people should be judged by their actions, or that how you look is a consequence of your choices and actions?

Judging someone who is fat because they are fat is not only a choice to judge someone else on their actions, but also a choice to judge someone on their priorities. You assume they have prioritized being skinny and are failing, and you're judging them for that. People shouldn't be judged on their priorities when you know nothing about them.

[Realsykes]

Oh not to mention, women have a time in their lives where it's okay to be fat (pregnancy), and afterwards it's just, "oh, they're just having a hard time getting rid of the baby fat, yknow that baby fat, right? Troublesome little bugger, don't worry she will get it off eventually."

No time for men like that.

[THE Bigzoman]

It was the point the person he was replying to was making. Chubbier women have their own niche to thrive in (bbw, pawgs, etc). This is hardly true for chubbier men.

But like I said before, these fat women have to have some kind of features at times. Whatever it is they still retain come curvature and have a fat ass or large breasts that don't sag as much as other fat women do.

The buck usually stops there.

[Velaniz]

I'll have to agree with the OP.

For example when I watch a Youtube video where the male host happens to be fat, I notice there won't be very many comments about his weight.
The opposite is true from what I've seen when it comes to fat female hosts that over half of the comments will be about her appearance and not about what she's saying.

This is probably actually a valid example.

But it's really just a result of the dominance (and potency) of male sexuality in society. The male sexual instinct is visceral and instantaneous. It's the same phenomenon that results in a video easily racking in millions of views when you set some cleavage as the thumb-nail.

[THE Bigzoman]

I'll have to agree with the OP.

For example when I watch a Youtube video where the male host happens to be fat, I notice there won't be very many comments about his weight.
The opposite is true from what I've seen when it comes to fat female hosts that over half of the comments will be about her appearance and not about what she's saying.

[cncrules45]

Oh not to mention, women have a time in their lives where it's okay to be fat (pregnancy), and afterwards it's just, "oh, they're just having a hard time getting rid of the baby fat, yknow that baby fat, right? Troublesome little bugger, don't worry she will get it off eventually."

No time for men like that.

This also brings up an important point. We judge someone who is 40 pounds overweight at the age of 21 differently than at 45. Same with 100 pounds. Same with being "at a good weight".

[Yarathir]

Don't think I ever said that. Think I just said fat women have it worse.

I don't believe it.





This is what I see happening more than anything. Mind you, I don't agree with the insults like "the embodiment of sloth". Sorry for that bit.

[KrazyK923]

Don't agree at all. Do you ever notice how 99% of caricatures of "fat" nerds are male?

[mizeri]

they get the same judgment, fat guys just don't give a shit about what others think as much.

[Deleted]

I dunno, I went to Seaworld and some obese women with a rental electric wheelchair (So normally she doesn't need one) backed up on a little girl's foot and broke her toes.
Can we judge her for being too fat (and lazy) to walk? I mean, it cost a family their vacation

What I am trying to say is that all people should not be judged how they look. Ofc there is fat people that are douchbags. Just like there is thin people that is.

You disagree that people should be judged by their actions, or that how you look is a consequence of your choices and actions?

The later, some people do not have a choice how they look.

[Yarathir]

I'll have to agree with the OP.

For example when I watch a Youtube video where the male host happens to be fat, I notice there won't be very many comments about his weight.
The opposite is true from what I've seen when it comes to fat female hosts that over half of the comments will be about her appearance and not about what she's saying.

boogie2988 wants a word with you. Every 3rd comment is one about how disgusting he looks, and how fat he is. (as if he didn't know that himself >.>)To me, it seems like people who are fat are pretty much attacked for it all the time, whether male or female.